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It's been 16 months since we've parted ways, but I'm still obsessed with my ex, who is now married and will have nothing to do with me. I even can't function even at the most basic level. Over these past 16 months, Ive seen multiple psychatrists, taken over 10 kinds of psychiatric meds, and nothing lessens the intensity of my feelings, even though I haven't talked to my ex in so many months. I don't see any end in sight to this, and I see no indications that this is going to stop any time soon (if ever) and quite frankly, Im scared.

I've heard of people using hypnosis as a means to change their deep set behavior.Well, does anyone have any personal knowledge of whether it is possible to use hypnosis to either help me forget about my ex, or convince me that life is worth living without my ex? I don't have much money, but if this is possible, I will find somehow find a way to pay for it. I'm willing to try anything, and I'm willing to give everything to feel normal again.

2007-01-04 15:09:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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i feel really bad for u i understand mine died at forty nine and i never got to say seee u later and its four yrs later i wish that he had the chance to live longer so i could at least see him but no no such luck so let it go men take it a lot harder u wear ur feelings on your sleeves all men do she is married there is no hypnosis even tho people will tell u that dont fall for it u were in love and u will live and u will get over it make new friends and go where they are not make uself happy then she will be sad not ugood luck u sound like a nice person

2007-01-04 15:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0 0

Honey, the mere fact that we are having this conversation means that YOU ARE NOT and NEVER will be a simple social drinker YOU are a FUNCTIONING Alcoholic, and are now looking for a way to convincer HER you are NOT an alcoholic And for her to find that acceptible She is NOT a fool and you will not convice her Either you choose the BOOZE or your CHoose her. you can't have both. THE lines were CLEARLY drawn, Before the relationship took off and NOW your trying to back out of the deal because you desire the BOOZE. this is the ADDICTION. so far the booze ruined 3 marriages and who knows how many other relationships. you can pretend that it didn't be you know that it played a MAJOR role. YOU left them, --I seriously doubt that you left them for any other reason than you didn't want to hear what they had to say, or they were getting MORE involved then you wanted them too. Here Quote: We talked about a "3 drink rule", but within a few weeks, I went a little too far (tho I didn't think so). You agreed to 3 drinks and NO more then broke that agreement ( LIE) Within a FEW WEEKS ( short period of time) I went a little too far (tho I didn't think so). ( Got drunk but I have been drunker) Can I reprogram my brain to become a "social drinker". ( is there anyway to have the booze) Can hynopsis help achieve this, ( I know i am an alcoholic but can't stop, because i am an ADDICT and can't control my self, I will LIE to get it if i have to) or even quitting? ( HELP ME QUIT, I can't do this myself) ---Does this sound about right? So far you haven't had the need to steal, and luckily haven't hurt anyone else BUT you have hurt your self and the people that love you, and even humiliated yourself on to many occasions to count, including at work. How many times have you driven home drunk with out knowing how you got there, ---Do you have to KILL someone to realize this is a problem, and dangerous to others not just to yourself. GO TO AA--- and change your life Good Luck M

2016-05-23 04:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Hey, I can understand. I have come to realize I will never get over my ex, just learn how to live without him. It's okay to still love him but don't waste your life! Try to do other things that make you happy. If you dwell on it, you will regret it.

2007-01-04 15:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0 0

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