by another woman for a good time. would u be upset?
my g/f ask me if i wanted too go out with this woman and i said, well yeah kinda...she told me too go ahead and left me.
i was just telling her what happen and she get all upset.
2007-01-04 14:16:12 · 19 answers · asked by urstory 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't be upset and I'm sure she wasn't, but if you really liked her you wouldn't want to go out with someone else right? If it was just an attraction to the other woman you should have just lied to your gf and said no. I agree with your girl leaving you, who wants to be with someone who wants to be with another woman, "wasn't she enough?"< I think she was angry because of that. Honesty is good, but sometimes is better to just lie.I'm giving you credit for being so honest do ;-)
2007-01-04 14:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mami19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 01:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ya* IF your g/friend asked you "do you want to go out with this woman and you said "well yeah kinda"...she did the right thing by saying go ahead and then leaving you. It's one thing to feel "flattered" by being asked out by another woman, but to WANT to go ...when you have a G/friend...is another. Obviously you don't want to be with your g/friend or you would have said flat out......You told the other woman THANKS...BUT NO THANKS* I have a Special Woman in your life"
2007-01-04 14:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make your woman feel secure with you, and telling her that you would like to go out with another woman is not the way to do that. If you do get hit on by another woman, you don't tell your woman about, because what is it really going to accomplish anyway, and she'll be asking herself why the hell you're telling her this. Just tell your guy friends about it, if you need to tell anyone, but don't tell your woman, because she doesn't want to know. You need to make her feel secure and let her know that you're her man.
2007-01-04 14:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset but I wouldn't get mad at him...I my man is attractive so I could see why that would happen. But as long as he said no I can't blame him for what another girl does.
However, you didn't tell your girlfriend that you got asked out and you told the girl NO.
She asked you if you WANTED to go out with another girl...and you said YES....so OF COURSE she dumped you. She took it as you wanted to go out with that girl and not her. You answered it WRONG.
2007-01-04 14:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth were you thinking? You told her you wanted to go out with another woman...what do you expect. I'd say the relationship is over at that point....
2007-01-04 14:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch. this is one of those times where... you kind of shouldve lied. in your head before you decided like that you should have made a list. (im only saying this because ive done with with my ex bf when another guy asked me out) write the pros and cons of each and compare. i mean, if this other woman who asked you out is better than your gf, then you benefit but she is probbably so heartbroken right now. call her and explain and tell her you love her if you feel really bad. i mean, i would have felt awful. think it out, and NOW is a better time to tell the truth, rather then before. i really hope things work out. good luck =D
2007-01-04 14:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset and then you would be upset because I would have punched right in the mouth for telling me and then acting as if you wanted to go and then I would have broke up with you.
2007-01-04 14:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I mind if someone else asked him out? No.
If he would have said, "Yeah, I kinda want to go out with her..." then I wouldn't dare continue our relationship.
She didn't get upset because a woman asked you out.
She got upset with you because you told her that you wanted to go out with her.
Great going.
2007-01-04 14:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the man...If I could trust him and it was just a question then 'nothing' I would find it flattering if my man got asked out especially if he said he was takin....
so the word 'trust' means everything in a relationship
2007-01-04 14:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋