I always say that im gonna do it but i always freeze up. I dont know why i freeze up, im not afraid of girls. I think its just the face that i might get turned down.Any tips?
2007-01-04 14:12:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to be funny and disarming. Say something like, "Would you please stop looking at me with lust in your eyes." Smile, wink.
You have to make them think they want you.
2007-01-04 14:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rey Fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losers are different from winners because losers are people who are so afraid of losing that they don't even try. You can't avoid the fact that you will get turned down one day. You probably will. But don't let that fear stop you from being able to experience other good relationships where you weren't turned down.
2007-01-04 22:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone get turned down at some point in their life so don't let that stop you. You are bound to get your heart broken/break some hearts/fall in love/get cheated on/cry/and be happy. It's all a part of love. Just ask whoever you have your heart set on.
2007-01-04 22:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem too lol...and i still do XD. Just try to get the girl alone (no friends around or anything). And just ask her. If she says no, then move it. It might be tough at first, but theres other girls out there.
2007-01-04 22:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by temujin556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is afraid of that but I would say just take a chance, if you get turned down then take that as a learning experience and try try again and Good luck to u.
2007-01-04 22:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by SYD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think (whether i turn the guy down or not) and respect any guy that has the courage to ask someone out and when u freeze up unfreeze yourself if you really like the girl and think she likes you just push yourself teh extra and ask her ; )
2007-01-04 22:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by southern peach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up and grow a pair. So what if you get rejected, the sooner you learn that rejection is part of the game the sooner you will start overcoming them and picking up girls.
2007-01-04 22:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that once to a irl and she felt so bad for me because kids were laughing at me and everything so she went out with me not for pretend though for real so sometimes being worried comes in handy.
2007-01-04 22:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know if you dont try, just relax and think that if you get turned down youre back the way you were, dont be afraid!
2007-01-04 22:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you got to do is believe in yourself.. confidence is the key.. even if you get turned down.. you moved a step further in your life.
2007-01-04 22:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋