I seriously LOVE my boyfriend he's scared to kiss.
I've kissed his cheek a few times and his head :)
this will be my first official lip kiss or tongue...
his 16yr couzin kissed his lips... if you count that as his first kiss okay... but I wouldn't
We can ONLY see each other before school 2 class periods, at lunch, and afterschool
I'm planning to kiss him before while we wait to go inside
so.... any suggestions?
I need some info on how to kiss to 0///0
P.S.
I have been with him for 2 months now! x mas was our anniversary
2007-01-04 13:27:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why he is scared I ahve talked ALOT about it with him
2007-01-04 13:32:34 · update #1
yes I have tried the hug pullback then kiss him trick he pulls his head away
2007-01-04 13:34:43 · update #2
how can I wait?
I love him I truly do.....
he's perfect. kind, sweet....
he always compliments me...
I want to kiss him to show that i really care about him, not just for the heck of it
2007-01-04 13:42:00 · update #3
Turn your head to the side and point to your cheek. When he falls for it. Turn your head and kiss him on the lips.
2007-01-04 13:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I bet he is thinking the same thing he is just too shy to do it. Um well just go for it. It depends if your walking or sitting down or just standing next to each other, so if your walking just grab his hand (fingers intertwined) and tug a little so he turns and faces you and go for the kiss. Since he is so shy maybe you should just go for the no tong kiss but that’s up to you. My advice is to share a French kiss when you two sit down to a movie and turn to him and blow his mind. So now the second question how to French. Well first you should go for the regular kiss (lips slightly parted) and when your lips meat put your tong out to meat his lips and he will part them to let you in. When your tong is in move around his tong (in circular motions) almost like wrestling each others tongs (be sure to have some variation. As far as lip movement, don’t really worry about it you will prefect that later on. (No lip movement is ok, moving lips when you don’t know what your doing can make it awkward) Good luck!
2007-01-04 13:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound corny, but it's all I can come up with for now:
Try walking up to him with a bag of potato chips. Don't get so close to him that he realizes it's just a regular bag of Doritos (or whatever). Now I have to get technical to explain what's going on in my head. From about 20 or 30 feet away he should be albe to tell you have a bag of chips in your hand. As you see him, open the bag. Then pretend as if you suddenly "got an idea" or a "lightbulb went on" (by maybe using a small facial expression), and quickly put the bag of chips behind your back (before he realizes what you actually have). Walk up to him with a big cheery smile and tell him you have some new chips you want him to try. "Do you trust me?", you should say....
"Well close your eyes and open your mouth." Now that's where it gets corny (my stupid idea), but... since you're faking him out with FOOD it makes sense to ask him to open his mouth (not too wide though). Make the bag ruffle as if you're reaching in there to pull out a chip, then just get on up to him and slob your first kiss right in the pecker.
This idea should get you STARTED (stupid, I know), but maybe it can help you think of a slightly less troublesome variation to use.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 13:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by gabound75 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him face to face.
Say, "Oh hang on a second, you have an eye lash...." and as he pauses to let you move it- move in for the big kiss on the lips!
If he's shy, it's probably not best to do it in a public place. Go to the park, maybe sit on the swings.
Ultimately, if he's not ready for a full on smooch, then let him know that you're ready when he's ready.... and give him a millions hugs in the meanwhile :-)
2007-01-04 13:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should personally. He may get freaked out. Boys are weird that way. Obviously he likes you, it's been two months. I know it's difficult but wait for him to kiss you.
2007-01-04 13:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab his head, and kiss him b4 he can think to turn away or avoid it or watever. After he realizes its great he won't be scared. Just don't hurt him when you grab him, or he might get mad.
2007-01-04 13:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you gotta kiss him!!!! just go for it girl it alot easier than you think trust me!! and once you get the first time over you can do it again and again and again!
kissing is very easy so go and get it done!!
2007-01-04 13:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it. It won't be enjoyable unless both people want to do it. And at your age, you can afford to wait.
2007-01-04 13:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how my boyfriend did it. sit real close(or stand) then mumble a few words and make sure u say "kiss u" loud and clear. then we he asks what u said, lean in and kiss him.after that it bedame natural
2007-01-04 13:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after school would be the best one. while you're saying goodbye would be the easiest one to do. after you hug just lean in and kiss him.
2007-01-04 13:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋