there is this girl, i always have to start up the conversation, we talked for a long time; next time, i have to start another conversation with her, i'm tired of that........ how do i make her comfortable and "wanna talk to me", because i really don't wanna sound like a stalker.....
2007-01-04 13:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you have to do is start asking her questions about herself. girls like that. trust me. and shes probably making out start the convo because girls always like the guys to make the first move in the conversation. its kind of our way to sort of "test" the guys and see how much they care.
2007-01-04 13:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation like that. Some women are just rebounders, they only talk if someone starts up, but other then that, remain silent unless there's something life threatening, or if someone's about to mess up their hair :P. try starting a conversation, but playing the other way when she starts talking and start being reflective instead of making all the effort.
2007-01-04 13:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask leading questions. A leading question is one that requires more than just a yes or no answer. Ask her questions about HER. All of us love to talk about US. Fascinating, or at least we think we are.
2007-01-04 13:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly find out what her interests are... and who her idol..or something like that...
From your conversation , add in bit and pieces of what she liked..
and slowly bring out her interest in the topic which eventually
she'll be the one talking and you'll be listening..lol
2007-01-04 13:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Badmanfor3v3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. She's probably shy. When you talk to her, don't force to talk. Talk about normal stuff, everyday kind of stuff and she'll follow your lead until either of you aren't uncomfortable anymore.
2007-01-04 13:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP TALKING. Ask her questions and let her talk. Hey, I said stop talking. Have you let her talk yet? It works if she's got any interest at all in you.
2007-01-04 13:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just be playin hard to get. just keep workin at it, but cool urself and dont seem obvious
2007-01-04 13:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her about herself,what she likes,dislikes,her favorite tv shows,movies,music,food,clothes,etc.
2007-01-04 13:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that..........................
2007-01-04 13:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋