Hey everyone, I've been in a long distance relationship for some time now, and I've travelled to see him twice so far... I'm going away to see him again Jan 19. The two previous times we've seem each other we had sex. First there was the awkward first time, then the second time we really got used to each other. This time, I really want to go all out and make him feel really good. You guys have any ideas? I was thinking about setting a time for us to have sex. For example, Say its 7:00 pm, I'll say to him we can;t engage in any intercourse until 8:00pm -- basically just exploring and feeling on each other until that time. You know? Kissing, Oral, getting each other all messed up ---- And see how long we can hold out for. I'm actually looking forward to that. You have any other ideas. I've know him for 2 plus years, so anything basically goes with us. Thanks i advance.
2007-01-04 13:21:29 · 16 answers · asked by That Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds good just ask him how he wants it ask him what he really desires to try your best to fulfill it then the next time you get your way then find a compromise this will lead into experience with your partner then you will get to know each other in short it is communication and the rest will be history and your not disgusting
2007-01-04 13:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by ertw t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try a nice candel light dinner first. Or you can go to a restaurant if you can't cook or do want to. You two can just talk and get to know each other better. You should just let the relationship flow. You shouldn't set the time for you to have sex. You should just let it happen. Thats when sex becomes boring and too technical when you think too much about how to get in the mood or when it should happen. Just let it happen naturally. Thats when it best.
2007-01-04 21:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a game you guys can play where you both look in each others eyes(2 ft apart from each other) and everytime someone looks away you have to tickle him or her. and if they laugh while in the staredown they have to give you a slow kiss on the cheek. I played this with my ex and bye the end of 20 mins we were so comfortable with each other.
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2007-01-04 21:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by www.soundclick.com/johnememphis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that you feel you must have sex with him in order to make him feel good? Can't your company of you being a great, smart, lovely, charming girl be enough to enjoy your company. I think you should really evaluate your relationship in terms of you thinking that you must participate in sexual intercourse in order to make him feel good. Why don't you try not to have sex this time, but to help make him feel good about you and your relationship by participating in activities that you don't normally do together. Movies, skating etc. See what it is you like about each other apart from the sex. Find out if you really do enjoy being with each other without it being sexual. Now, if that happens, you know you have a keeper.
2007-01-04 21:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
During the oral try a little prostate massage. Of course he might freak on that but it will get him going. Wear some real nice high heel shoes. Keep them on. Your idea sound good though. The suspense is a killer
2007-01-04 21:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by bob K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you meet up, send him coupons for him to use...e.g. This coupon entitles you to....
...30 minutes of oral pleasure
...be blindfolded and experience the best 15 minutes of your life
...have a peek and my stunning underwear..chosen especially for you...anytime, anyplace in public
....be kissed by me for 1 hour...all over.
You can also send him a coupon entitled 'treasure chest'....
get a little present for him...perhaps a friendship ring? Hide it somewhere intimate e.g. attach it with a ribbon to a thong you are wearing. And let him find his treasure. You can have in small print that he can only use his teeth, lips and toungue to find the treasure.
Enjoy your meet! And best of luck with your relationship!
2007-01-04 21:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by lilacwalls 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take oil or massage lotion, start at 7 massaging him, his back, legs, whatever.....all the time telling him intercourse doesn't start till 8. Bring chilled drinks....strawberries...feed him....have fun....
2007-01-04 21:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why set a time?Just get after it.
2007-01-04 21:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slide your finger in his bottom. He may say he isn't into that or holler when you do it but once it is in just wiggle it around and he will hardly be able to wait for you to mount him. Then mount him using your vagina as a penis-pleasuring tool.
2007-01-04 21:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Casey C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that sounds horrible. the entire idea---setting a time, it is cold and calculative and sickening. You sound very loose to me. Your third date and you are want to spread you legs. I don't care if you have known him 2 years. You are gross.
2007-01-04 21:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋