she says she's loves me but not in love with me any more...what should we do??keep trying.??stop??or what??
is it over or do u think its just a step/phase??
2007-01-04 13:20:01 · 11 answers · asked by Ang C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like it's time to move on!
2007-01-04 13:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's begging you for a grand gesture, a declaration of your undying devotion to her. Women don't fall in and out of love just like that, and if she's not "in love," that means she's looking for a spark. She wants to love you, but she wants a reason for it. Rekindle!
Think back to what made you googly over her. Is there something she always wanted (a trip or a getaway, a ring or flowers for no reason)? Capitalize, man, capitalize. If you want to progress through this phase, step up and be the knight on the white horse. Think about all of the kind gestures you could offer, all of the spontaneous romantic nights you could have, the little sweet things you could do just because she likes them.
I wish you the best luck.
2007-01-04 21:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that its not over but its not a phase. tell her that you should take a break. not break up. you can talk to other girls and she can talk to other guys. stay on the break for a couple weeks and see how things turn out.
2007-01-04 21:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by lexi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It sounds like she has something else in mind. Life is too short to wait on someone that is really not interested.
There is a perfect person for you out there somewhere. Choose you mate wisely.
2007-01-04 21:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by Larry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't certain about things in your relationship thats why she is doing this. Just take a break for awhile and see if she has figured things out. Just take a break for a couple of months.
2007-01-04 21:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most times when someone says they love you but are not in love with you thats a sure sign its over.i would say get out now and stop wasting time
2007-01-04 21:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm sorry to say, it's over. Now it's just a matter of how ugly of a break up it'll be.
2007-01-04 21:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by Meiju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the nice way to put u down. just stay friends
2007-01-04 21:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst an indirect way of telling u "hey lets jst b friends"
2007-01-04 21:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by memez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force love
2007-01-04 21:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋