Jus turned 22 a day ago, my friends realized that I've never had a girl. I've asked out and talked to many but nil. I'm the ONLY one in my circle of friends ( guys & girls) to not have a girl let alone get a date. 2 friends are already married :( I feel like I'm being left behind and not for marriage. Trust me even though the paradox of asking someone to trust you over the internet who you've never meet b4 is quite strange just bare wit me,I have quite the streak of bad luck when it comes to 'getting ' the girls. Nothing sexual either jus to hang out and have a drink. I've been told i'm outgoing confident humurous a good character and blah blah blah, i know hate to hear that crap why? becuz if all that is true then why don't I have girlfriend ? It's seriously bugging the crap outta me. I moved across country a while ago and now have a few friends so that eliminates all the childhood friends that were girls I could of hooked up wit or with their extended friends.I think I need a shrink
2007-01-04 13:19:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is completely normal of course! Maybe the girls around you are too shy to ask you out. You should try talking to them and asking them out. Many girls are too shy. You seem like a nice guy so just give it your best and even if they reject you, you should know that you are worth it and they just don't appreciate it.
~LD
2007-01-04 13:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ladie Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 23, nd I JUST NOW have begun a reltionship with someone I approve of; and still, I am cautious and slow, and have a distance between us.
It is a matter of finding saomeone you truly want, and know you shoudl be with, based on your standards, ---once you know consciously what those standards, wants, and expecttions and ambitions are-- that should determine when and who you sdate, not what other people think.
I have waited all this time to sort through my own values, priorities, and to think of what I would want from a relationship, and why, BEFORE I consired looking for a man.
And I am mighty happy I did--- I really really like the guy I picked, and there is no shame involved, no pressure, no discomfort.
Know yourself, and your life will always be good. :)
2007-01-04 13:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yentl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you gotten a girl? Do you want one, and if so, what's been keeping you away from them? Shyness, insecurity? If not, then maybe, as you've seen, you aren't supposed to have a girl. Mine just fell into my lap, and we fit, whereas my friend hasn't had one for years, but is actively searching. Heck, maybe you're homosexual.
Don't succumb to girlfriend peer-pressure, and don't get bummed out if it's what you want but can't have; it'll come, or it won't, but you can't control all of it, any more than who you are. Be yourself, and don't worry, regardless, because if you date and even (shudder) marry out of fear of loneliness, you'll find there are worse things than not being with single. Good luck, and have faith.
2007-01-04 13:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by seth220993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me!!!!! In a few years your friends are going to be saying to you Man are you lucky. Playing the field, money to spend however you like to, no kids, Man I wish I had of waited! Take some advise here kiddo, you have LOTS OF TIME. LOTS. So what your the only one single. Enjoy it while you can, you can't rush the process of finding the right person, when you least expect it it will happen. Sit back enjoy the perks of being single.
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2016-12-01 20:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't hurt to get some counseling to help you deal with this issue, but I don't think there is a major problem. God could be protecting you from evil and temptation and saving you for the right girl and you might be a better person for it.
2007-01-04 13:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is normal. Many guys ur age and older haven't been with many girls. It will happen when it's meant to happen.Don't be in such a rush sweetie. and don't let others push u into doing what ur not ready to do until u and ONLY u are ready.
2007-01-04 13:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you need a shrink, go see one now, before everything intensifies.
perhaps you just haven't met the right person yet.
oh, and ENJOY BEING SINGLE. it's the best time of your life. if you're so worried about having a girl w/ you, then do the online hookup sites.
2007-01-04 13:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
n i thought it took me a long time 2 get a bf
but ur turn will com jus wait
ur probably betta off witout 1 rite now
2007-01-04 13:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Derr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE ONLY 22, YOU SAID, YOU HAD BEEN TOLD YOU WERE OUTGOING, HUMOROUS, GOOD CHARACTER AND CONFIDENT. WELL, I THINK YOU HAVE LOST YOUR CONFIDENT .YOU ARE DOUBTING YOURSELF ABOUT GETTING A GIRLFRIEND. GET YOUR CONFIDENT BACK AND START ASKING SOME OF THE FEMALES OUT. THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU AND HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH. BE YOURSELF AND THAT SOMEONE WILL POP UP.
2007-01-04 13:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by bettys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋