I'm in highschool and i really like this girl but she has a bf..we r friends and talk to each other a lot but i don't know if i should just tell her now and what happens happens or wait a while to c if she and her bf break up.
2007-01-04 12:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by :( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best friend was going through the same thing as u with me see I was daiting someone and my best friend told me he liked me in Gr.5 and last summer he liked me but he didn't tell me until 4 months later and it was too late b/c I got a new bf after my last one dumped me.
2007-01-04 13:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be easy to fall for a girl that's a friend. But she's got a bf. Chances are they will break up eventually since you are all still in HS. Don't wait though, because you could be waiting and waiting and what if while you were waiting for her, another girl became interested in you? Either you won't even notice that the other girl liked you or you may accidently blow her off with out even trying. Don't wait for something that could make you pass up a better oppertunity. Just be friends for now. What happens, happens. But don't wait, it could end in heart break. Good luck!
2007-01-04 21:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say wait a little also give tiny hints that you want to be more than good friends (liek flirting except in a guy way). ALso, if this girl is in highschool those relationships last 2 sec.(depending on the guy/girl). Also if her bf is a complete ego maniact then it shouldn't take long for them to break up
2007-01-04 21:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by zoiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till they break up. If you tell her now, and they break up because of it, he'll try to make you miserable. Bide your time and be a friend (well, maybe a flirty friend) but don't get in the way. Let it run its course. You're in HS, so it's not likely they'll get married or anything...
2007-01-04 21:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel, if it's not too uncomfortable. Letting a girl know how you feel might open their mind to the fact that they are liked for different reasons.
2007-01-04 21:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Grim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her now. you could get in trouble, get a bad rep, and i could upset her, her bf, her friends, and her bf's friends. but you do what you think is best. i dont know the people so i dont know how they would react
2007-01-04 21:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by erieberrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably best not to get involved if she has a bf - let them work it out, then make a move
2007-01-12 14:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till they break up.
2007-01-04 21:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lexi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say but have have to wait...
2007-01-04 21:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has a boyfriend
leave her alone
before you get your *** kicked
2007-01-04 21:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋