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i went out with this guy named alex and it wasnt the first time. we had gone out before for 9 months and then we broke up.but about 2 weeks ago we went back out and then broke up the next day at school because he said that people were talking bad about us going back out. he said he still liked me and then he went out with another girl the very same day. so on new years i called him at 12:01 and said happy new years and he called his friend to tell him i had called. so now i want to call him to talk but im scared he might hang up and i dont know what to talk about but i like him and he dont want people talking crap so he wont go back out with me so how do i convince him. please help

2007-01-04 12:59:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

talk to him at school.
Or tell him to call u....say....hey u havent called me,u need to call me

make sure no one is around

2007-01-04 13:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0 0

From the sound of this question you sound very young. So I will tell you something that may help you in the long run. Do not waste your time trying to talk to him. If he really likes you there is no one (friends, family, etc.) that could stop him from talking to you or going out with you again. It seems that Alex is more concern with his rep than with you. So if I were you and I was oh, so many years ago I would concentrate on looking for someone that can stand on his own two feet, trust his own heart, be proud of what he feels for someone, and can tell his friends to back off, if they are saying things that can offend him or you. If you choose to speak to him do so. You as well as Alex will have to learn to stand on your own 2 feet and be strong enough inside to take whatever may be dished out to you. Hope all goes well and I hope that if it isn't Alex that the next one will be all that you want him to be.

2007-01-04 21:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He's already said he won't go out with u 'cause people talk bad about u guys goi' out. Forget him- he's too immature. If he really liked u, it wouldn't matter what other people say. Stay away, don't call him & see if he calls u. It may take a few wks., but if he cares, he'll call.

2007-01-04 21:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by louise b 2 · 0 0

Let it go honey. You're coming across as being very "needy". Guys don't like to be chased. Leave him alone for a while and soon he'll be doing the calling.

2007-01-04 21:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0 0

Be friendly when you see him but don't call him,wait for him to call you, in the mean time go out with your friends and have fun

2007-01-04 21:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by audreylea1 1 · 0 0

Let him go.It's hard to let somebody go when you love him.But you will come across as needy and men like misterious women. At school act like you dont know him, ignore him as much as possible, be pleasant with everybodyelse around you.Make yourself admired and wanted.

2007-01-04 21:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by nena 1 · 0 0

I he was serious about going out with you he would not care what other people said. This is an excuse. Find yourself another boyfriend.

2007-01-04 21:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Slowly start considering all other 196,067 Alexes in the world?

2007-01-04 21:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Alain 2 · 0 0

He needs to stand on his own two feet, if everytime someone says something and he chickens out he is not fit to be a man, but if you really believe you have a chance and love to get him back it is not too late.

http://www.affiliatehood.com/get-your-ex-back.html

2007-01-04 21:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by My2cents 2 · 0 0

Look if he is worried about what everbody else has to say about you two being together, forget him because if he really liked you and I mean really liked you he wouldn't care about the others

2007-01-04 21:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by AKON-eisha 2 · 0 0

call him back on your friends cell so when he sees the number he will answer say if he wants to come to the movies or something with friends

2007-01-04 21:02:02 · answer #11 · answered by Julia C 1 · 0 0

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