and how important are looks??
2007-01-04 12:56:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As pretty as you are!
2007-01-04 13:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see thats just the deal.
the looks of her eyes are very important. the rest is secondary. if you have happiness in your eyes you will be more attactive to everybody. no matter what the rest of your face or body looks like.
unfortunately a lot of people have been brainwashed by the beauty product sales industry that if you don't buy enough of their products or look like their models then you are not pretty enough.
and some guys have bought into the conspiracy as well. make real friends and become a happy person being the best that you can be and you will become more attractive.
as for a certain guy noticing you, be careful what you want, you may just get it, but it won't be what you thought it was, when you saw it advertised on t.v.
2007-01-04 13:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makeup, hairdo, outfits, are all what the media makes of the perfect girl. You read the magazines and with every page, it makes you feel uglier. A girl does not have to pretty at all for someone to notice her. All that matters is self-confidence and a positive attitude to get what you want. As to the question of how important are looks. Due to the ignorance of society today, looks are all that matters in the world. But if you want a true relationship that will last for a long time, the guy who loves you for you are is the guy who you really deserve.
2007-01-04 13:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Hitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hump on her back is a pretty limiting factor... as is the single eye in the middle of her forehead...
no, seriously, guys eliminate based on obvious 'failings'. They are attracted to a single thing initially and then go through a long, unspoken evaluation process to seek out the 'flaw' that they can use as an excuse NOT to want her. Barring that, they'll then go back to look for every good quality she may possess.
I'm all about legs... long, thin, beautiful legs. That's me. Some guys are about boobs, butts, whatever. Know what your 'hook' is, work on reducing the size of your 'hump', and land your own Prince Charming.
Congratulations. I look forward to the wedding invite a few years down the road.
2007-01-04 13:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men are seasoned enough to acknowledge that looks should not take precedence over other things when deciding to ask a girl for a date. However, men are more visual than women, so I would just say that being in shape (good height and weight proportion) with clean hygiene is more than sufficient. Pretty face is desirable, but not necessary.
2007-01-04 13:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by simplyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have to be pretty to be noticed. But she does need to be self-confident. Personally, for me, it's not about a particular look. What's really attractive to me is a girl with self confidence above all else. I'm not particular when it comes to a girl's physical attributes such as body style, eye color, hair color or style and definitely not the clothes. But a girl must have self-confidence.
Most of all, I like a girl who knows what she wants and how to get it. You girls have these special little ways of letting us guys know you are interested in us without necessarily coming on like a cheap whore. Things like moving in close enough to let us smell your perfume, flashing a bright smile, a quick glancing bit of eye contact, a gentle touch of the hand (especially on my bicep, chest or abs) these things send all the right signals to a guy while still allowing a girl to maintaining her lady like dignity. But the bottom line is, a girl that has the confidence to know what she likes and how to get it can be especially alluring!!! If you don't have self-confidence, it's not going anywhere with me.
2007-01-04 12:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A girl must have at least one attractive body part (legs, chest, butt, face, hair, etc) for a guy to notice her. Nice clothing helps as well. After that, it's all up to a girl's personality to take it to the next step.
2007-01-04 13:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by chucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well looks are not everything for one,If she's pretty bonus but i would prefer a woman with brains.One who knows how to use her sex appeal,Looks are important of course on first sight but explore you'll find many sexy women who are not totaly gorgeous
2007-01-04 13:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "Looks" are more important, to Ladies,than Men. But we do tend to look a the important features, too. And you know what I'm talkin' about.
2007-01-04 12:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl..I hthink guys go looks then lpersonality
2007-01-04 12:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. small breasts
2. short hair
3. firm thighs
4. full lips
5. intetecually stimulating
6. no fakes or flash
7. can hold her own and knows when not to
8. sassy at times
9. airheads need not apply
2007-01-05 05:11:46 · answer #11 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋