i broke off a 3yr relationship when i went away for college now im back and it feels like theres still something there,but ofcourse she has here worries of letting me back in her life,should i keep my hopes up or should i just forget it and move on?what can i do?
2007-01-04 12:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by DAF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on how your past relationship was going. If it was a good, honest, friendly-love, then definately go for it. But not too fast. Don't go and ask her out just yet. Slowly rekindle the relationship over a cup of coffee or a walk in the park. Become friends first. Let her know that she can trust you again and that you really want the relationship to work. So definately keep your hopes up if you really care about her, and it sounds like you do considering you just got back from college with beautiful campus girls every corner you turn, and you still have a thing for this girl.
2007-01-04 12:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you back for good now?
If you think you have a chance and she gives you hints that you do then you should wait around... however you need to be careful...
You broke up with her to go away to college, and although the only other option would have been a long distance relationship (and they SUCK), she may still feel like you broke up with her to move onto bigger and better things, but now that you're back from that you want her back.
I think she is trying to gain some control here because the ball was always in your court. If you think it's worth it, then hang around, but don't mess her about because she won't forgive you.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 20:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you back for good? I can understand where your ex is coming from, you caused her some hurt. You'll need to take it slow and easy. I would say keep your hopes neutral. It sounds like she hasn't totally written you off. Don't push her and it may happen for ya'll again.
2007-01-04 20:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Debra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know your intentions with a promise that you won't leave her again if things work out. See a relationship coach together and take things very slowly.
2007-01-04 20:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she feels betrayed because you broke up with her when you left and i dont blame her. if you really care about her then show her you are sorry for what you did if you just want to play with her head stay away from her and let her find someone that will respect her for who she is.
2007-01-04 20:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back in touch with her and start hanging out again as friends. Tell her how you feel and see where it goes from there.....Good Luck
2007-01-04 20:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Greg M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can catch up on things, spend time together and see where the relationship goes.
2007-01-04 20:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt leave it bhind..dude dis is 3 years yall was together.u shood talk to her and tell her u will b the man of her dreams and u wont let her down
2007-01-04 20:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question, I really hope someone gives you an awesome answer.
2007-01-04 20:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mark B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best you can do at this point is try your best to assure her that this time is different. wooo her. try to make her open up and let you in again.
good luck
2007-01-04 20:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by kungfu Kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋