ok, theres this really hot guy, I've liked for a while. We're really good friends, we text eachother and talk on the phone about stuff all the time. we dtalk about his mom and dad, school, funny stories, stuff like that. He's really sweet and tells me how nice I am and how pretty I look and how good I smell. He even broke up with his girlfriend... (everyone says for me, he just hasn't asked me out yet)
but see the things that makes me ask if he really likes me, is because he's always touching me. Slipping his hands down my pants (when i tell him to stop, he does.) strokes my legs, and today he kissed me. He's ALWAYS touching me... so i ask...is he just a horny kid, or does he like me? Or both? seriously, Im confused here... something says he likes me, but the other part says "he doesn't give a crap about YOU, he just wants a peice of @ss" but my friends say he likes me...
Please help?
2007-01-04 12:21:07 · 21 answers · asked by thats_hot_097 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i'd say he really likes you especially if he has finished with his girlfriend and think about it how many guys will tell you personal things about themselves. If you tell him to stop then thats a sign of respect. Maybe he is also horny too but alot of young guys get like. I think maybe you should ask him whether you and him are just for fun or is it something more. Your friends also say he likes you and thats also a good sign as friends look at things from a different point of view whereas you will see things differently. Good Luck
2007-01-04 12:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by danielle555626 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if he was really interested in you as a person he would be respectful for fear that he would offend you or scare you away. Any man who puts his hands down your pants without ever having asked you out on a date, is approaching this from a different angle. I don't know how old you are but I would bet you are both late teens or early twenties. BEWARE! I do NOT trust this guys motives. If he cared about you he would never disrespect you like that. I don't care how close you are as friends.
2007-01-04 12:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Answer is both. He likes you and wants a piece of that she-bacon on rye toast, slathered up in butter.
Anyways, in the end its all about the wanting a piece of you; because your not old enough for anything really serious like marriage, and your not going to stay together until you are, so every relationship is about hanging out and getting the suffing fluffed until you find someone you want to fluff the pillows with more.
2007-01-04 12:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sammer (Jim W) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only guys that DON'T want to get in your pants are either gay or just don't fancy you.
The question you need to ask yourself is - "Does he ONLY want to get into my pants?"
Talk to him - ASK HIM - tell him how you'd feel about a relationship with him; and how you would feel about it just being a physical thing.
Shocking news I know - but guys are human too. Maybe he needs reassurance that you wouldn't just laugh at him and then tell all your mates what a wanker he is!
2007-01-04 12:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by franja 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he wants to get in your pants, there is no doubt about that. But he seems like he likes you. I'd say give him 2 wks and if he doesn't ask you out by then, look somewhere else.
2007-01-04 12:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem once and all he wanted was a booty call but unless in some way you no that he is different then stick to him but if you have strong feelings that somethings wrong stop it all and it will show him that your more than just a booty call
2007-01-04 12:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by AM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well come on now, what do you think, of course he wants in your pants! It dosent mean he does or doesnt like you. Maybe he'll like you more if you let him but make him wait a while, just so he dont take you for granted, thats if you like him back yeah?
2007-01-04 12:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by thataintnoname 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is showing you no respect at all and you should tell him exactly that. Sounds like he is an immature punk and he doesn't care if he hurts your feelings or not.
2007-01-04 12:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Aberdeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to sound like a prude but me thinks he is just after your tush, if this guy really liked you he wouldn't move straight in for the kill like a dog on heat.
2007-01-04 12:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really like you he would treat you with respect and ask you out the boy sounds like a w@nker stop him touching you and see if his interest wains.
2007-01-04 12:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Loo 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋