I am 13 years old and shy around girls i think are hot. can you give me advice.?
i stutter blush and try to advoid starting a conversation. Please help me
2007-01-04 12:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by John S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to talk to them. Dont be afraid to crash and burn. u r 13 and young ,make use of the time you have to get used to talking to hot girls.This you wont feel that shy talking to any hot girl when you get older
2007-01-04 12:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by bronson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on dude! don't ask do! you are probably a great guy, tons of girls probably admire your skyness around them.i am 13 and i liked his guy in my class he was super shy around everyone but i liked it, it was nice for him to show that he isnt superfitcal or stuck up, he was just as nervous as i was about dating and relationships and stuff. dont worry about your shyness, girls will relise just how great you really are. here are some pointers: just relax around her. if she senses that you like her then maybe she will ask you out, be patient. but if she doesn't like you then she might get freaked out by you. try and be her friend first. just because shes cute it doesnt mean that she has a great attitude. if you are her friend first then maybe you will find out that she isnt as great as you thinks she is, maybe she will be better........ dont sweat. also if you are her friend then you can find out what she likes and stuff. if you guys get along well then maybe after a month or two ask her out. DONT RUSH THINGS! and also dont be a jerk to her because you think that then she will think that you are "more manly" cause she wont like it. also if you try to make her jealous by hanging around with her friends. THAT NEVER WORKS! so just dont stress out about her. its just a girl and act like yourself around her, she'll like that. good luck! i wrote this for some other questions...so it might now be completly for you, but it still should work.. have fun! and remember, you rock!
2007-01-04 20:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not hot,but i am shy and 14 years old,but u could practice talking 2 me if u want...
2007-01-04 20:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_roxy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend shes a guy or someone youve known forever.....pretending shes someone else besides a "hot girl" will help with the nerves....it just takes practice talking to people....perhaps practicing what you would say to her would help
2007-01-04 20:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by ferrari76x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident i'm 13 to
2007-01-04 20:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite normal and natural...it time, with maturity, it will get better :-)
2007-01-04 20:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋