shes dating sumbody and well i dont have the courge to ask her out any advice?
2007-01-04 11:58:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this should help you out :)
Flirt with her. Start off light, you don't want to come on too strong or else you will look needy and desperate. You want to come off as confident and humorous, not devoid and lonely.
Make sure she has some sort of basic attraction to you. You will find this out if she tries to make body contact with you. Always look at a woman's body language; flipping her hair, leaning in towards you, staring at your lips, or touching your arm or leg are all good signs that she's into you.
Make sure she has a good time whenever she's with you. This is easier than it sounds; just keep things light and positive.
Get her number and spend 10 minutes on the phone with her and make small talk, and ask her out. Say, "Hey, come over to my house and we'll watch that movie you like".
When it's time for her to go home, stare deep into her eyes and say, "Whoa, your hair is so soft," and stare at her lips and back into her eyes. If she's still staring at you then go in and kiss her, no questions asked. If she looks away, say, "Alright, thanks for the good time, take care."
If things don't go so well, that's cool. There are other girls out there. She may seem like "the one", but there are many others that will make you feel the same way.
Try and touch her leg or arm. If she lets you, that's good. If she says something about it then back off and slow down a little. Don't push too hard; just a light touch.
Tips
Don't let her boyfriend know of your intentions. He might try and step up his game a little. Actually, don't tell anyone. Word always gets around.
Show her you care.
Tell her how much you appreciate her friendship.
Use your conscience here, because this guy may really want this girl you're trying to ask out, and if you don't want this kind of thing happening to you, you'd better stay on your feet and be a challenge to her for the rest of your life.
Don't limit yourself to this one girl. There are tons out there. Remember, if you don't shoot you won't hit.
Girls like a guy who is confident and knows what he wants and is also sort of a challenge to her.
Remember that trying to steal a girl away from her boyfriend is a hard task. She must want to be taken away.
Don't be cocky.
It's a BIG help if you know what kind of guy she's going out with. Be everything he isn't, and don't do the unlikable things he does.
2007-01-04 12:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Boss 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 04:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is dating sombody so you have to wait. but dont feel bad. its never to late. just be really good friends with her and soon she will see what a great person you are. who knows. she mite even dump him 4 you. dont worry. its never too late. just be as friendly as you can and let her know you have her back
good luck!
2007-01-04 12:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by kungfu Kristen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably shouldn't ask her out if she's dating somebody.
wait until they break up, and don't try to ruin their relationship. just be patient, and if you really like her, then she'll be worth the wait.
2007-01-04 12:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by jbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask....do what you want!it doesnt matter if she has a boyfriend, just ask, follow ur heart, who knows maybe she will get in a fight with her bf and got out with you instead
2007-01-04 12:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh u cant ask her out bc she is dating some sorry about that there is someone for everyone!
2007-01-04 12:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by sky_pie!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if shes dating somebody your too late
2007-01-04 12:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont ask her out when she is dating somebody..they'll kick your ***..wait until something happens and tell her you like her
2007-01-04 12:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her ALONE-she already has somebody...remember?
2007-01-04 12:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be her friend
2007-01-04 12:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by soccerjock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋