i kinda made this girl i like mad because i said that i didnt care about something, and i didnt think it was important, but it kinda was and now she is mad and wont talk to me, i opolegised... she knows i like her we arent really dating were taking things slow... help anyone?
2007-01-04 11:57:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell you the truth girls need time to think about what they should and shouldn't do....don't worry too much. In the mean time try your hardest to make her happy and be there for her and that will show her that you really do care for her! If she ends up giving you space dont panic! But if you do back to the talking try not to make the same dumb mistakes you've done and take it from there!
2007-01-04 12:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by debbie cakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you apologize to a girl right after making a mistake, they don't believe you. They think you're just apologizing to apolgize. However, if you wait a day or two and make a sincere apology, she will know you put some thought into it. Do something nice like buy her some flowers!
2007-01-04 20:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a good way to show you that you DO understand is to repeat the issue back to her and explain HER feelings and thoughts and reasoning first... then explain yours. Many people get into arguments because they aren't listening to the other person's point of view. Why do they do this.. because they think that the opposition isn't listening. Once you explain that you DO understand her feelings in this way... she may agree w/you or she may repeat herself and explain in more detail. Repeat this until she knows you understand her. Then.. try to talk to her about YOUR feelings.
2007-01-04 20:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by rtucker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to forget the word 'pride' for 5 minutes and grovel, beg, admit you were a neglectful fool and spoil her to bits..and promise to try your best to listen to her.
If she can't be forgiving and give you a second chance...is she really the girl for you?
ps - diamonds may help
2007-01-04 20:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by lilacwalls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, send her flowers with a card that says "I really do care" and that is all - she will get over it.
2007-01-04 20:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will blow over. You apologized. You don't have to like everything she likes(boring). I hate pink too.
2007-01-04 19:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by ButwhatdoIno? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok man this is wat u got to do give her a gift to say srry to her and say u were not thinking about wat u said
2007-01-04 20:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by rick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋