he seems nice but things he want but i dont and i dont want to tell him no cuz i like him and i don't know if he likes me to or just using me???
2007-01-04 11:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by bunny_hop_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably using you if he keeps pressuring you...
dont do what you dont feel comfortable with, period, if he leaves because of it, he wasnt worth the time...
2007-01-04 11:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your responsibility to make it known what you want and don't want. Honesty and communication are important parts of any relationship.
If a guy has to ask for sex then he isn't a very good lover and you shouldn't do anything you don't want to do. The time for love making is when you are excited, feel the urges, and decide on your own what you want.
If anyone tries to make you do something you don't want to do, they are poison. Get away as fast as you can and don't look back. No second chances no talking about it.
2007-01-04 12:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by John H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you feel comfortable with. If you aren't wanting to get intimate with him, well, that's too bad for him. If you try and force stuff like that then it's not good. The best love is made whn both partners are equally into it. If it's just one person wanting it then it's not even close to being the same.
2007-01-04 12:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is taking advantage of you. A man that really cares about you and has a sexual relationship with you will want to please you and not push you to do things that you are not comfortable with!!
Tell him what you dont like and what makes you feel uncomfortable and if he doesnt listen then you'll know that he is only in this relationship for his needs only.
Don't you think you deserve someone who is going to care about your wants and needs? If you dont like something and it doesnt feel right you shouldnt let it continue.. do yourself a favor and start caring about yourself and your wants before you worry about a man that doesnt care about you! good luck!
2007-01-04 12:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready then push your hands away. Tell him you want to get to know him better. If he keeps insisting to do it with you, then you now he just wants something. I hope you find out what he's really after. best wishes.
2007-01-04 11:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its all just fun, let him do that stuff, try to relax ad enjoy it but use the opportunity to get him to do stuff that you like too, or better still tell him you wanna do it right back to him or theres no deal! yeah?
p.s (what kinda stuff we talkin here..? ) ;p
2007-01-04 11:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by thataintnoname 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell him the truth... your not ready for sex yet... tell him to wait for a little while and maybe your be ready in the future but you need to tell him up front... he will understand..
2007-01-04 11:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone use you. If you are not comfortable say "NO"... if he doesn't respect you. You need to move on, he is bad news.
2007-01-04 12:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by ima_averagejoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him you don't want to do it, and if he makes you do anything that you don't want to do, he is using you! he should respect you & your decisions.
2007-01-04 11:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, c if he will wait for you. n not pressure u.
2007-01-04 11:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by soccerjock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋