im an adult woman and ive been single for 3 years and i have needs.theres this man who i liked and my passions and urges took over me.we are both mature adults hes 10 yrs older and so calm and cool.i like him and enjoy the excitment.have met him twice but is it wrong to be enjoying like this.or will he think im a slag?i know the damage is already done lol.just wondering if i should play things cool with him.just to make him want me.i want him to want me? any kind advice?
2007-01-04 11:53:15 · 18 answers · asked by gypsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh!! Once again, a "man" can give it away and that is just fine!! Woman are "slags"...please!! Sex is sex!!
Be a true woman, do what makes you feel good, enjoy it while it is there! Next man please!!!!!
I would dare him to judge mental of you!!
2007-01-04 12:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have an answer. But first, didn't I see your name written in the bathroom of the McDonalds on 8 Mile Road? Well anyway I digress :). How about getting to know the guy a little bit first? Did you bother to learn his real name first? How about finding out if he has a job first? Or what about this crazy suggestion? Find out what his goals are in life.
You obviously have some guilt about this and know you should back track and wait until you get more background before letting someone take you for a testdrive on highway H&D. Most guys see this type of behavior as an H&D experience (that's hump & dump for you sheltered folk out there). Baby you have just been used! But in this case you used yourself.
2007-01-04 12:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by michaelinlivonia 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well for me this would never happen...if you expressed your interest in intercourse on the first date (hell first twenty dates for that matter, give or take) I would as politely as possible let you know that you werent the kind of woman I was looking for...
Now being that most guys dont care about this stuff, they will stick you, but know that you arent relationship material...
2007-01-04 11:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm proof that it can work sometimes, i slept with my partner the first night i met him which was totally out of character for me, i have been with him almost 13 years now and have two beautiful kids. i think its just a case of leaving a little to the imagination and not letting go of yourself to much.
good luck.
2007-01-04 12:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is a future, be a woman about it all, tell him you like him a lot and want more, and no you're not wrong to enjoy him, you have no one to answer to but you. Talk to him, you may be surprised.
2007-01-04 11:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ignore the 'dating rules' and do what you think is right. I slept with my partner on our first date and we've now been together more than 4 years. Sometimes that's how it works.
2007-01-04 11:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by The Truth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE WILL THINK YOUR A SLAG, SORRY
ps theres no point in thumbs downing the ones you dont want to hear!! isnt this why you asked the question?? to get peoples thoughts and then judge, it appears you just want people to tell you its fine to just drop your knickers first time, moron!!
2007-01-04 11:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by SCOTT B 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's an insecure bloke, he'll think you're a slag. If he can appreciate a woman who knows what she wants then he wont.
2007-01-04 12:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no future, most guys want some on the first date but no guy wants to stay with a woman who does it on the first night. If you find a guy who does then he probably will cheat on you down the road
2007-01-04 11:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by ihatelilac 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I believe that most guys will stick around for as long as they believe that it benifits them, I think that what is harmed by this is the respect they have for you later.
2007-01-04 11:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋