My FWB keeps wanting me to spend the night with him, like sleep over all night. This seems a little too intimate for FWB to me. I think I can handle the casual sex, but once you start sleeping over, you are likely to get attached. Does this seem true to you?? What do you think about spending the night with your FWB???
P.S. I don't need a moral lesson about casual sex. I've thought this situation through clearly and have decided it's the best thing for me right now. I'm just getting out of a loooong r/ship and I like this guy but am not ready for something serious.
2007-01-04 11:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should do it
2007-01-04 11:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FWB are great and that is the best way to keep it if you dont want it to go any futher, and sleeping over is not so bad as long as he knows what FWB means as well. Inform him of your intentions and what you want ask him what he wants and if its not what you want call it off. But the thing is if you just stop all of a sudden now, you are going to loose that friendship. Explore yourself and explore life before ending up in something that is way to serious. Enjoy your life and one day you will love again, but just not now.
2007-01-04 11:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by leanne1303leanne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually with casual sex , starts it and unless the other has done it before , they tend to slowly but surely fall for you. Sounds like this guy likes you alot and thought that the only way to be with you would be this way. And he hopefully would change you one day. Need to tell him how you feel before he ends up destroying himself more
2007-01-04 11:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there performed that and worn the T shirt and sure you could stay acquaintances however the reality of the issue is that in case you're nonetheless emotionally in touch then its going to be so no longer common to have a platonic relationship with somebody whom you nonetheless have emotions for. i attempted to stay acquaintances with a number of my ex's even doing the full booty call element for a whilst then I realised it wasnt going to artwork and that i didnt desire for use as an common thank you to get laid as horrid because it sounds. i could nonetheless evaluate them to be a pal yet greater a pal that i could say hi to if I suddenly met interior the line than a real pal who i ought to call upon in situations of desire. Its great which you felt gentle to spend yuletide jointly yet I only understand from adventure adult adult males dont see intercourse the way we ladies do, they dont desire emotional attachment and that i only difficulty which you will think of if I shop slumbering with him at last issues will artwork out and honey it only doesnt artwork like that. stay solid, be acquaintances yet dont sleep with him back, tell your self its closure and flow directly to somebody who could provide you each and everything u deserve.
2016-11-26 19:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casual sex is psychologically damaging...as you are seeing here now cos this guy is wanting you for more than just a warm place to stick it (suprisingly enough). He wants more of you and now you will find out why this sort of arrangement is not a very smart idea...
2007-01-04 11:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Phister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay an hour after the hot sex, then move on home to your comfy bed. Awwww i miss those days. Have fun, be safe!!
2007-01-04 11:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend spending the night. Women tend to get to emotionally attached when you start doing that sh*t.
2007-01-04 11:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur not ready to stay all night. but still can have casual sex ....do what u feel is right u have to go with ur feelin not with what everybody else tells u to do.. talk it out with him
2007-01-04 11:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by bowpeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know you're uncomfortable with that, and if he's still ok just continue. If not it might be time to benefit another friend.
2007-01-04 12:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what's going to happen at night.
if nothing "too intimate" happens, stay.
if he starts acting like a jerk and wants to do shet that you don't, get up and go.
2007-01-04 11:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by jbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is fwb, then keep it that way. just f**k him and tell him to leave.
2007-01-04 11:53:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋