After being together for 2 years my boyfriend (now ex) came to me and said he was unhappy, we worked on a few things and we were back to normal...then out of no where a couple weeks later, he broke up with me. We have talked few times since, he even gave me a hug and told me things would be ok and would work out. He says he's sure he made to right choice but everytime I see him and talk to him he seems to regret things. how do i just move on, when we were planning on living together? any help would be good. Do i forget about it and move on or do i keep intouch with him and hope we could fix things....
2007-01-04 11:45:05 · 10 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him, and ask him to make things clear for you: "is this what you want or not?" If he says yes, that breaking up will keep being the best choice, then forget about him, and move on, but if I were you I would try one more time. After you get his final response you'll feel way better.
If you both cant go back together, dont worry, just think that you'll find someone else soon, that life is not over, you're young and deserve to be happy, but if you have the opportunity to fix things, then give it a try.
Good luck
2007-01-04 11:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my ex for 10 years. I found the less I saw of him the better I felt. He to told me out of the blue were were thro. We did live together. I was forced to move out. The old saying about if you love something set it free if it comes back it is yours if it does not then it never was. I feel you problably did the right thing and not move in. In this case you must protect your heart and mind and soul. Try staying away from the places he haunts. Good luck
2007-01-04 19:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the info you gave us, I'd say do both. You should move on with your life, but at the same time, you should try and solve the problems. Easy or hard.
2007-01-04 19:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by mscorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting time and move on. He dumped you. Have some dignity and stop seeing him. The only reason why he keeps in touch with you is for casual sex.
2007-01-04 19:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, dont give up, if you actually love him! I mean to see the one that you love with another woman could tear your world apart! But if you dont love him and dont want 2 contiue the relantionship then why waste your time!
2007-01-04 19:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you must forget him find someone else fast.He has another girl I would guess.He is telling you it will work out only because when he sees you he feels quilty
2007-01-04 20:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should keep in touch for a little bit until u finally heal, u have never have too many friends. eating alot of rocky road ice cream should help too.
2007-01-04 19:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by *~JeS~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a close friend to hang out with. you need to spent time with people than sitting there thinking alone.
2007-01-04 19:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it might be hard, but just try to move on. go try to find other guys. hes not worth you if he keeps hurting you like that.
2007-01-04 19:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always tough but best to move on.....feels better afterwards...
2007-01-04 19:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋