2007-01-04 11:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the guy, but you shouldn't worry about it. If the guy isn't really into you, and doesn't respect you, and doesn't accept you, then he shouldn't be getting any. Feel free to hold out for a guy who puts you at ease and makes you feel comfortable. There's no rush. Don't go for it just because other people are, with the wrong guy, or whatever. You have plenty of time. Make good choices.
2007-01-04 11:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by SoCalSkierGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.... Secretly, they all went to be your first... It's some man thing... they feel so powerful when they know that a girl has been sleeping only with them. They feel special.
Plus, if they worry about their skills in bed (but you will NEVER hear this from any man's mouth), they like to sleep with virgins, cuz they don't know how good or bad is he...
So basically, they mostly love virgins because virgins can't tell the difference between good or bad sex, so every sex is a good sex to them
Or at least that's what they think...
But no, don't worry. Personally, I never heard a man saying a virginity is a turnoff. And I have a lot of sincere male friends. There's no need for them to lie to me.
2007-01-04 19:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can be. if the guy is trolling for a one night stand, being a virgin is quite a turn off due to the rumor that virgins get clingy after the first time and rarely understand it was a one night stand.
However, some guys expect a virgin in a relationship or are more then welcome for the girl to be a virgin. It just all depends on the kind of person the girl wants to attract.
2007-01-04 19:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are turned off because they desire a girl (woman) with experience who knows how to please her man. The downside is that he may really care about her and be affraid of hurting her.
Others are honored that she might give that most precious gift to him and are willing to receive that gift in a loving, caring, gentle manner. But there are some not so caring guys who seek out virginity as a trophy to be taken any old way, by any means or deception, before moving on to the next victim.
Don't be one of those victims.
So it averages. Maybe in favor of the virgin being a turn-on.
2007-01-04 19:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by John H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont know. but i really really dont care at all about what they do think. all i know is i am waiting till i am 18. by then i will be ready and the guy would be perfect as well.
2007-01-04 19:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by no longer caligirl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it is something terrific that a woman would save herself for me
2007-01-04 19:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - I like experience.
2007-01-04 20:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a turn off.. but you need to tell him so he will go very easy and slow for you... you dont want to hurt during sex so tell him... but it is not a turn off....
2007-01-04 19:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in fact it is just the opposite
2007-01-04 19:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that a turn on for me!!
2007-01-04 19:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋