ok well theres this boy tht i met through my friend and hes reallyyy cute nd too hot for me. nd my friend wanted to hook me up. i showed him a pix nd all he said was do u have another pix too cause i cant see ur face tht clear. then he said srry tht wasnt nice. i should go for personality. then i was like no its ok. so we talked nd we hit it up. then he gave me his number cause he was interested in me. im so scared to call. wht if he sees me in person nd thinks im ugli and im short and wht if he thinks i like like 10. argh...lol..i feel so insecure bout myself. please lemme kno wht to do.
2007-01-04 11:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by Sanita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feeling insecure over acceptance by a hottie of the opposite sex is pretty typical. Most people feel nervous if they might blow a really good opportunity.
What you need to do is relax, and realize that there will be plenty more opportunities to meet people if this doesn't work out. Worrying won't change anything, or make it better. The guy will like you, or not. You may decide that he's a total flake/ loser/ weirdo/ freak, and take a pass. Life will go on, and there will be another guy around the next corner.
2007-01-04 12:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by SoCalSkierGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can tell very easily if a boy doesn't like you. If he said that he is interested, maybe you just need to give him a chance, Feeling insecure about yourself is very very normal with hot boys.. It happens to all girls, and some guys..I guess.. lol
And just think, he may be feeling the same about you??
good luck
2007-01-04 19:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats horrible. im the same way thow. look. you sed that you showed him a pic right?n well then he already knows how you look. like he sed. hes for the personality. i know its hard being a girl. you always try to l;ook good so guys will look at you and in the end its not worth it. but look sweetie. everyone is beautiful in there own special way. dont ever think low of yourself. guys arnt worth the trouble. just try it. if it doesnt work out then hes not the guy for you. there are plenty of other guys out there who wil like you for who you are and think your the most beautiful person in the world. so dont get so worked up. if he likes you then great!! if he doesnt then thats his lost. you will find better.
hope i helped..
good luck!!
2007-01-04 19:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by kungfu Kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋