Ok, i have met a very hot guy online, and we have been talkin to eachother for about 3 weeks or so. I really like him and he thinks that im hot to. We want to met eachother soon, and maybe do a few other things together. We are havin a cyber relationship, in a way, and i dont want anything to happen to mess it up, so what should I do? I want him to be my boyfriend, and for us to maybe get married in the futer, but I keep thinkin he might just do what he wants with me then go find another girl.
2007-01-04 11:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Kevin Jonas♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do yourself a big favor and really get to get to know this guy first. So many times people do this and get burned--and granted times it does work out. But-please be careful--if you meet--do it in a public place for awhile until you are comfortable around him and know him well enough to be alone with him. Just because he looks hot--doesn't mean he is.
2007-01-04 11:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, the answer to that question is a big, fat, "NO!" There are a lot of reasons why you shouldn't go and meet that "hot guy" that you met online. First of all, there are too many horrible people out there who take advantage of young, sweet, and unknowing people. Many times, child predators pretend that they are young, hot guys. It's very common for them to find pictures of someone attractive and pretend that they are that person. And just to convince you that they ARE your age, they will research schools and places nearby, and even learn current slang just to convince you that they're who they say they are. So, the answer to your question is NO. Don't meet that guy. Chances are, it's really a 47 year old guy with a beer belly and a hairy back, who would just love to pick you up in his van with tinted windows and never bring you back home. There is no such thing as being TOO careful. Please, watch out for yourself. It's easy to convince yourself that "you can handle it". But there will always be someone more evil than you, who has a better plan figured out. Very scary of me to say these things, but unfortunately it's true. If you still need further convincing, go on YouTube and look up "How to Catch a Predator". If that doesn't convince you, I don't know what will.
2016-03-29 08:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I hate to put time frames on things but you have only been talking to him for 3 weeks. In my opinion that is not enough time to know someone before claiming that you want to marry that person. If you think that there is a chance that he would do what ever he wants and go find another girl why would you want to invest your time with someone like that in the first place? I say slow down and get to know him better. That way you can make a better guess at whether you think that he would do what he wants and then go find another girl or not. If you must meet him in person go with a group of friends to do something casual at first. That way if you end up not liking him as much in person than it would give you more room to not have the situation be as weird. Not only that but in case he is a weirdo and wants to hurt or do unacceptable things to you your friends could be there to prevent that. It might also make it more comfortable to not have it as serious the first time you meet.
2007-01-04 11:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by akaweetweet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute HOT guys exist on the Internet? LOL
2007-01-04 11:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it to the phone first. if things go well there, meet him in a very public place with a friend, and carry things like a cell phone and mace, and have someone call you during your meeting.
wish you well.
2007-01-04 11:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks and your already thinking a possible marriage.....OH MY! You don't say how old you are but I am guessing your young....be careful and play it smart....Good Luck!
2007-01-04 11:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm. meet him in a crowded place like a mall with one or two of your friends.
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2007-01-04 11:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by poprocksncoke030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont he is probably a rapist and if he showed you a picture of him it most likely isn't his forget him you shouldn't even be trying to make relationships over the net anyways
2007-01-04 11:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by minnie101 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont listen to them they might be a bad person out to have $e% with you.
2007-01-04 11:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jesse 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask him how many other girls he has just like you.
2007-01-04 11:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋