I just told my wife of an affair i had. I love her that much that even if it tears us apart I think she deserved the truth. I love my wife more than life. She left and went to her mom's and said she needed time to think. Please pray for us.
2007-01-04 11:20:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I will pray for you, but if you really love her that much you will be faithful to her.
grace2u
2007-01-04 11:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Theophilus 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her why you had the affair... she is looking for answers,
What was it that made you go to another woman? If you really love her now what was different back then? and what has made you realise that love you feel for her now?
The more truth you put in words the more love you can create. It is your love that overcomes these troubles. Tell how you feel now and how you felt then describe what is inside.
I promise you, if you truly love her... and if you get it true she will love you more for the truth is true love and most people can tell it apart from that which you call hell.
I recommend writing it down first and if she will not listen then at least you can give her your answers.
2007-01-04 19:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by James 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On a more practical level -
1. Apologize BIG TIME.
2. Immediately make an appointment with a marriage counsoler for yourself (she could be included later).
3. Apologize and tell her you are starting counsoling asap.
4. Tell her you want to give her time to think about things.
2007-01-04 19:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, I would distrust any cheaters.
But I'm not her. I'm one of those people that if a girl were to cheat on me, and I found out about it, she will be gone in three hours. That's my grace period. If she's still there, I'll take all of her belongings (if I have a house or apartment) and leave them in a giant bag next to her car and tell her to have a nice life.
I'm a nice person, but you cause me grief, you brought my wrath on yourself. You can't complain.
2007-01-04 19:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will but you wouldn't of had an affair if you loved her that much.
you diserve to loose her, but she cant devorce you and still be a part of the curch.
as for you, go to confession. you need it. you are in a state of mortal sin for commiting adultery.
2007-01-04 19:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Catholic 14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a prayer forum, there are THOUSANDS of them on the web. Go there.
So god could help your situation at any moment. But he sits there waiting for us to pray to do so. How many people would he need to change his mind and actually help you? Is this really how you conceive of your god? Scary stuff.
2007-01-04 19:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I will. You do the same, he needs to hear it first hand.
2007-01-04 19:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prayers are pointless, they obviously don't work and are for gullible peopl hoping for more than nature can allow.
2007-01-04 19:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by 42yxalag 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
ill be praying for you...the Lord will help you through this.
2007-01-04 19:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oooops!
2007-01-04 19:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋