My ex and me broke up very prematurely. She said that she loved me and i loved her too. But in about a week, two weeks time she lost interest in me and broke up with me. I know i didnt do anything wrong to screw up the relationship but how does she lose interest so fast and what could possiabliy be the cause.
P.S
I dont think that am a boring guy if anything am actually fun to be around because funny, charming, know how to dance, etc
2007-01-04 11:05:25 · 14 answers · asked by Pablo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you think it have anything to do with you, or if you did anything wrong? The best answer for you is, it has to come from her. I would ask her, and if she won’t give you the answer, I guess just move on anyway. In your life time, you will run in to this situation again. Next time you know what to do.
2007-01-04 11:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she did love you, its possible she said it because she probley thought its what you wanted to hear. You said it how could she, well someone in love would have stcuk around and worked things out. Dont want to breakd it to you but she did you a favor now you can find the right girl that will say I love you and mean it.
2007-01-04 11:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! Either she never loved you, or the whole situation scared her, but don't let that be a reason for you to hold on. Let it go, she doesn't want you, she made that apparent. I'm sure you're young and really in love but no love is worth the pain of that kind of heart ache. Don't worry about her move on and find someone who really loves you.
2007-01-04 11:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u feel as tho u sacrifice a lot to make her happy? sometimes that is nice of u to do, but it can blind u from actually being a Manly Man to keep her interest. what i mean by manly, is someone who shows that he can make good decisions, make her feel attractive, wanted, safe and secure, and that u can Take Care of Her.... not u will let her dominate u. i don't really know the details, but it's possible that she felt u were too much of a pushover..?? good luck dear.. find someone who loves everything about and Proves it to you.. saying it only means so much, as u are learning now...
2007-01-04 11:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she only told you what she thought you wanted to hear. Or possibly, maybe she's been losing interest in you for a while, but couldn't find a way to tellyou or she didn't know when the best times was to tell you.
2007-01-04 11:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she loved you with her lips. But actions speak louder than words. If you have all the great qualities that you say you do and if you are confident that right girl will come along.
2007-01-04 11:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. You said you went through a lot with this girl. Why continue.
2016-05-23 04:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say this but I think she said I love you just to get what she wants(if you know what i mean!) or maybe shes one of those powering people that say I love you and not mean it just to hear you say it back....
2007-01-04 11:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't really love you and felt pressured to say that she loved you. She might have gotten freaked out by the commitment level and had to bail. There's really only one person who can tell you why she did it, that would be her.
2007-01-04 11:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by JC 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People say things they don't mean all the time. Don't take it personally.
2007-01-04 11:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Peter N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋