men usually go to clubs/bars to check out women but not to know their personality. do you think clubs are good places to find a guy you might want to have a serious relationship with. I mean if you met them at a club, they might go to another one to check out other women some other time. I've heard that the men there fool around and act too immature to have a serious relationship. is it true?
and have you heard of anyone that was dicovered in a club and doing great stuff like modeling and music videos? and if so, which ones and where?
2007-01-04 10:54:54 · 13 answers · asked by soccerjock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good answers. give more details, tell me some real-life experiences.
2007-01-04 11:20:14 · update #1
SOrry pumpkin, guys in clubs are club going guys. That means they're not in a serious time of their life.
Yeah, there are also people who do that great stuff in clubs. They still aren't ready for a stable, long term relationship.
Best to stay away from that whole scene.
2007-01-04 10:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sammer (Jim W) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might find someone at a club or bar. I go out sometimes and I'm definately open to a serious relationship. Just keep in mind that people aren't always the same when you meet them in a different setting. Exchange phone numbers and meet up somewhere else in a different, sober environment in a day or two. That will be the test whether he wants a quick stick or something more.
2007-01-04 11:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Matt ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bars and clubs are not the place to find a serious relationship or a "quality" man - it doesn't mean there aren't quality men and women in there just out for a little fun, but you can't trust that ANYONE you meet there (male or female) is looking for anything more than fun.
But just because someone goes to a bar or club, it doesn't mean they're not looking for something serious - just that they're not looking for it right then.
2007-01-04 11:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two reasons why guys who go to clubs, go to clubs: to get drunk and to get laid, usually in that order. I have never heard of anyone being "discovered" in a bar or club. The lighting is usually too low and the floor too crowded to actually see many people and observe them well enough to determine any talent. So in my opinion the answers to your questions are no and no.
2007-01-04 11:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Freddy Finger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not going to find the quality you want in a guy at a club. People put on their "fakeness" when at a club. You would be better off finding a real quality guy at a grocery store and such.
2007-01-04 10:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 15:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by hirschfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had this conversation with a friend before. there are not a lot of places to find people so you need to keep your head when you meet someone and dont be the girl that those guys are looking for - get to know him before you jump into bed with them
2007-01-04 10:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a serious relationship ..never ever go to a bar and find an ideal guy there...try bookstores, mall, or coffee shop instead!
good luck!
2007-01-04 10:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah you can maybe find a good one, but their one in a million at a place like that. Go somewhere respectable.
2007-01-04 10:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No men in clubs/bars are lookin for fast ***
2007-01-04 10:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by b_eazy01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋