I've known him 3 years, my ex was stunning, and he stepped in.
He calls me even though I don't know what to do. He came over new years to talk and told me this. I froze and he left, leave a ring. saying he has loved me always and , his friend is stupid. And he also said he won't do anything to offend me, until our wedding night.
2007-01-04 10:49:21 · 20 answers · asked by alluremn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know I'm confused and don't know what to do. My ex has had dream about us being together. The friend has always been around.
2007-01-04 10:50:43 · update #1
I don't think you've given us enough information...Do you love the ex's best friend? Do you still love your ex? If you are asking if we would do it, I'm guessing you aren't in love. I think if you have to ask then it isn't right. If you were truly in love and wanted to marry him you wouldn't have to ask anyone. Just my opinion. Good luck what ever you do.
2007-01-04 10:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by winslow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touchy scenario......lot's of questions. How long has your ex been your ex? ex boyfriend or ex husband? If the guy is really noble, he has watched his friend(your ex) and how he treated you and decided he was attracted to you and would treat you different. If the break up was recent.....be careful. Marriage is a serious commitment and should not be done on the rebound. Also if he has watched you for 3 years with another man there should be no RUSH.
If you have no desire for a commitment with the new guy let him know that.
If you are more concerned with how it may look to other people including your ex...then that's a clue.
If you are really interested for the right reasons....proceed cautiously.
2007-01-04 19:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an ex for a reason, why in the world are you worried about what he thinks? Sure the guy and the ex are friends, but friends know and see things and that's probably why he wants to be with you. I say go for it and good luck.
2007-01-04 18:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let your ex continue to run your life, you had a life before him and you still have a life after him, if you have feelings for the guy and think that you could be with this guy now and in the future then take a chance because it doesnt seem like he is going to be going anywhere but do whats in your heart no matter what decision you make the guy will always be there for you.....
2007-01-04 20:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't anything unless you're in love with him. You can't marry someone just because they asked. If the other guy is an "ex" then this has nothing to do with him.
2007-01-04 18:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u really love him then say yes if u dont explain to him and say i dont like u that way but we can still be friend i think he will understand
2007-01-04 18:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by hatpetcar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course...why let an EX of all things ruin your future happiness?
2007-01-04 18:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. you need to sort out your feelings first with the ex. you should be truly in love with the person before you marry.
2007-01-04 18:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple - only do it if you love him.
if you dont, but might... hey, try dating for a while and get to know each other on a level that excludes the common factor - your ex.
2007-01-04 18:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by november lilies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody on this thing can tell you what to do its all up to you....
....do you love this "friend"?? can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him?? dont worry about your ex unless you still love him too. wait.. do you love both of them????
its all up to you..follow your heart! good luck! â¥
2007-01-04 19:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ha ha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋