Ok heres the deal: my friend is worried that her boyfriend is going to change with her because he spent winter vacation in Mexico and hes coming back in 3 days and she thinks he cheated on her while he was in Mexico or she thinks their relationship is going to change just because he went on vacation and now shes talking to me about it and i dont know what to do anymore because shes my best friend and it really worries me to see her stressing like this.She keeps thinking the worst will happen when for all she knows he sits inside and thinks about her all day.Does anybody have any advice on what i should do and what she should do??Thanks for all the help!!
2007-01-04 10:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by Chickitita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Uh, 13-14 year olds? They change everyday.... regardless of vacations...
Uhm... also, 13-14.. You can't "cheat", you shouldn't be having sex in the first place... add to that youngins have no business even trying to have serious relationships...
Stick to the happy bliss of boy/girl friendships as long as you can, because believe me, once you done with that phase of your life you will want it back quickly!! Realtionships are best left to grown ups (25+) who have to endure the headaches of the single life.
Best of luck.
2007-01-04 10:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to relax! How could she possibly know if he cheated on her? And if he did, would she really want him back?
You don't say how long this guy has been gone, but did he write her, or e-mail her while he was down there? If there was no contact while he was gone, maybe I can understand her concern, but come on!
Being 13-14 is young honey. If he was in Mexico, I have an idea that he was just having a good old time and will be glad to see her when he gets back. Tell her to calm down. Worrying about it now won't do any good. Good Luck!
2007-01-04 10:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Emma J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if their relationship is good then they should be able to trust each other on that sort of stuff. Of course,13 and 14 year olds have a hard time handling a relationship.
Don't lie and say stuff like, "He's probably thinking of you right now-and has been ever since he got to Mexico" or "He wouldn't cheat on you-the only one he could ever love." Unless you know it for a fact (as in he told you that stuff) then don't tell her. Just be honest and tell her that if she feels as if they can trust each other then she has no reason to feel as if maybe he's cheating on her. Encourage her to enjoy winter vacation before it's all over and just to try and relax till he gets back home. Plan some cool stuff for the both of you guys to do so she can be too busy to worry about her boyfriend.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 11:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to use shorter sentences. Then, tell your friend and yourself that boys and girls your age change their minds very quickly at this age because their lives are not very complicated yet. And there isn't much more outside of a school relationship at you age either. So if they break up, oh well. Your 14! Go enjoy yourself without worrying about boys. They'll still be there when your older!
2007-01-04 10:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by ErinRae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is stay out of it. 13-14 yr olds change on a daily basis any amount of time apart will make one or both assume the other has cheated if there is no trust in a relationship regardless of the age of the people involved its time to get out.
2007-01-04 10:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to be straight up with him and ask him what went on in mexcio. Tell her to say so how many girls did ya find.. in a joking manner so he dosent think anything. And look and see what his experssion on his face is.. Best of luck! Regina Back!!
2007-01-11 15:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 00:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah its hard for 13-14 changed...............
2007-01-11 19:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by sultan a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋