Ok... My boyfriend has been really mean to me latley... and then I meet this girl that I really like... She's nice to me... and I feel sumthing with her that I don't feel with him. I don't know what to do b.c I am scared of hurting him. But I just don't feel the same ne more. Advice please! ;)
2007-01-04 10:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest and let him go.
2007-01-04 10:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared of still hurting him then you have some feeling for him, it may not be the same but there's something still there. Being in a relationship can become complicated if you don't communicate. And just because you hit a rough spot doesn't mean that you leave that person because you feel better with someone else. I am glad to hear you found another person to feel good with... but what about your boyfriend, maybe he needs help in talking about what he is going thru. Why don't you ask him what's going on..
Everyone always wants someone to talk to in a time that's difficult. Remember that he can turn to you, if you would give him an opening. And for guys it usually has to be pretty obvious. And that's why this girl you met is a refresher. You can talk to her about how you feel with him. Yet if you were to tell him, don't you think you might get an answer?
2007-01-04 10:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the feelings aren't mutual anymore and that it would be right for you to stay in a relationship with him when you're unhappy. If you two can't work things out then him go.
2007-01-04 10:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by miss_lady404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with how you feel.. No one should be treated badly no matter what. If you feel a connection with someone else to then see where it might go. Follow your heart and be honest to yourself too. You deserve the best we all do.
2007-01-04 10:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is not the answer when you feel that you dont care anymore. You will regret it later I assure you. Ask God to help you, and talk to decent people about advise. Take care of yourself, there's only one of you, and it will be real sad reading the last chapter of your life, only to realise that you wasted it on being gay
2007-01-04 10:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are saying you are bi let him go for awhile see what comes up with him and if you like females better tell him you are more into girls then guys
2007-01-04 10:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by kris b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank god.
me and your mother were beginning to wonder.
2007-01-04 10:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r confused right now focus on urself and not on him nor her.....
2007-01-04 10:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's being a jerk dump his *** and move on.
2007-01-04 10:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a lesbian
2007-01-04 10:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by unruly_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋