My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago b/c he doesnt want a relationship right now. He finds it hard to balance a gf and everything else in his life, like family, friends, schoolwork.(I'm his first gf and we are long distance). Also everybody can see that now I love him more than he loves me instead of the other way around at the beginning of our relationship a year ago. I wonder if he'll come back. I'm pretty sure he's not gonna date others;he's extremely shy without even a single female friend;he likes to hang out with his male friends a lot though; I'm still waiting for him...
What should i do to get him back on his own? Cut myself completely out of his life so he'll miss me and all the love and attention i gave him?
2007-01-04 10:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-04 10:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should just give him time to sort thing out in his life. Maybe he really is not ready to handle a long distance relationship. Once he has figured things out and if he feels like there was a connection he will come back to you.. Just like the saying if you love something set it free if it comes back to you it was meant to be. In the meantime just be you go out do things you like don't ever wait around for someone either its not good and you might enjoy having some of your own time to do your thing. Good luck to you in whatever you decide that is right for your life.
2007-01-04 18:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if it your destiny for you and this guy to be together then you will even if it is five years from now. here another reason to move in a group of guy most woman look for the shy guy b/c that the one who they think will always stay shy who want go after another girl the shy get most of the girls sorry to be the one to tell you that
2007-01-04 18:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, let him get everything else straightened out, if he comes back to you and you're still single great, if not it's his loss.
2007-01-04 18:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend let him go and if he comes back then it was meant to be.Maybe he just needs time to get his life&career together.
2007-01-04 18:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by lyndee222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do if he's made up his mind. I know it's hard and heartbreaking but it sounds like it's time to move on.
2007-01-04 18:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can be that way sometimes.....Because the grass is not always greener on the other side.....Do whatever feels right...
2007-01-04 18:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Steven A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's busy. go out and date others
2007-01-04 18:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I break up with someone it is for a very good reason...I don't think or have any regrets about them whatsoever!!!
2007-01-04 18:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you want ? It is obviously up to you for the most
2007-01-04 18:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋