My ex bf broke up w/ me told me so many things that really hurt me also told me he had someone else and that he's been a hypocrite all these 5 years that we have been together I tried to salvage what was left of "us" but it didn't work. He told me 2 move on look for someone else go and have fun. He practically begged me to 4get him, I put so much in2 this relationship and it was hard for me to let go I almost went for professional help he knew I was taking this very hard he didn't even want to be friends. Now he calls, texts and passes by my house to see who's there he's also having a relationship w/ my voicemail. I don't understand why he told me to buzz off and 4get him and now he's leaving vm's that he missed me and wishes we were 2gether. He acting like if we're still going out...( for 2 months he dissed me)
2007-01-04 10:13:46 · 17 answers · asked by RoseFairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't the 1st time he's done this..plus I have met someone else...I don't want him to know because he has anger issues..
2007-01-04 10:22:49 · update #1
His ''anger issues'' is not your problem! HE broke it off not you. You do not owe him any explanation. So what? You've moved on,
looks like he moved on without you more than once! You shouldn't hide from him because you're seeing someone new. What signals are you sending your new Boyfriend when you're hiding from that jerk?! It seems as though he wants his cake and eat it too. Forget him Girl! Please, for your own sake and for the sake of your ''HEART'' do not reply to any of his messages. He thinks that you still need him and Honey you really don't. Do you actually want to go back to the hurt and all the disrespect? I'm sure you love yourself better than that. Try to forget about him, he did not love or respect you.
2007-01-04 11:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation but im the other guy that she is with now and now her ex is trying to talk to her more, leaves her comments on myspace, IM stuff like that probably telling her the same thing that your ex was telling you. But I trust and love her I think hes doing that to you is cause he realize what he lost, and probably cuz the grass wasnt greener on the other side for him and now he wants to go back to what he knows a gurl that would be down for him. Most of all men do that after they break up with there girlfriend YOU just have to make a choice on rather you want to take a chance with him again or move on. I hope this help good luck.
2007-01-04 10:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Young South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you and girl I would do just as he said move on and if it was meant to be then in the future you two will get back together. maybe he's just trying to fall back on you cause something else didn't work out. I wouldn't fall for it, I would let him see what he was missing it's his loss not yours and I would also make him apologize for putting you through what he did before I would even talk to him. I know it's hard when you love someone but let it go and if it's meant to be then it will come back.
2007-01-04 10:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably isn't ready to let you go but at the same time he needs to find out what else is out there for him. I had the same problem. The best thing to do is to cut him off and let him feel what life without you is like. Thats the only way that he will figure out whether he wants to be with you or not.
2007-01-04 10:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he finally relized he lost the best thing that ever happend to him. It sucks that he had to hook up with some one els to figure it out. but he did. I think you should see what he has to say about the whole thing and maybe try to work it out if you think he is worth it. 5 years is a long time. But if this isn't the first time he's done this you should just keep ignoring him he'll eventually get the message.
2007-01-04 10:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has issues that he needs to deal with. Tell him that you have moved on and dont want to be in contact with him anymore. Say this very calmly and dont get emotional. Move on and dont play this silly game of him wanting you now that you are not together. Stay healthy, strong and dont give him any more thought. If he gets to be a bugaboo, get a restraining order on him.
2007-01-04 10:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on how the courting ended. One i will talk with and one does not deserve the time of day so i do no longer problem with the pretend 'hellos'. I won't problem being super and dealing with each and every of the fakeness of chatting it up with an ex if i incredibly don't experience something for them anymore. you're saying she wasn't for you so what's the huge deal if she does not talk with you anymore? pass on including your life - she's for sure moved on along with her very own.
2016-10-30 00:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he realizes that he made a mistake and now wants to have a relationship again, because he knows how much he has hurt you in the past and is looking for a way to make it up to you...
2007-01-04 10:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's feeling lonely and insecure so he's using you because he knows how much you cared. When he told you to move on it was the best advice he could have given you. take it.
2007-01-04 10:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you are still having contact with him may it be negative or positive...the more contact that you have with him, may it be getting into an argument and having him tell you how terrible you are you are still enabling him into your life...do not respond to anything he has to say or text
2007-01-04 10:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋