he says he wants to marry me.. but then again he says he doesn't like long time relationships... =( wats this mean.?
i mean... can i change his mind if he's madly in love with me...?
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2007-01-04 10:09:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says he doesn;t want anything to happen to us..
but then again.....
2007-01-04 10:12:51 · update #1
we've sorta have been on and off. but i don't know; he says he wants forever... i hope for forever and i want it. but i just...well. we're talking more. and our communication has grown. but it hurts..to hear him say these things for me...
2007-01-04 11:10:50 · update #2
It sounds like he may not know what he wants at this time. If you care for him, don't push it. Enjoy each other and relax.
Time will tell if you are truly meant to be. You would rather have him ready and willing to marry, rather than feeling "pushed".
For now, enjoy him, he's crazy about ya! : )
2007-01-04 10:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like long relationships?
If he said this seriously, then maybe you should put off marrying him for a while.
Don't take this to lightly, talk to him about it, in a serious way.
If he dumps you a little while after your married, and you never forgive yourself, then you'll end up an old cat lady.
Not that cat ladies aren't cool, but maybe you should talk with him!!
Good Luck!
2007-01-04 10:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should be happy that he is honest with you. It would be a lot worse if he was doing this behind your back. Typical case of a man in love with 2 women. He wants his cake and to eat it too. I think the 2 of you do have a chance, it sounds like you are incredibly close and that he loves you (but not exclusively) He wants you and he wants her too. That is incredibly painful for you and I am sorry you have to go through this.
2016-03-29 08:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, even if you could change his mind, why would you want to? Do you want to be with a man who wants to be WITH you? Long-term? If he's already told you he doesn't like long term relationships, and yet he wants to marry you -- well, that's contradictory and I wouldn't even go there if I were you. You deserve much better than that.
2007-01-04 10:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he's doing is called double talk. If your not old enough to jump from a short term relationship to marriage with him, then DUMP HIM cause he's using you. That's my opinion from what I read here.
Good Luck and Happy New Year to you~~~
2007-01-04 10:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person you can control is YOU. Maybe he means he wants to be married instead of just dating.Did you ask him?
2007-01-04 10:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely did love you he would want a long term relationship with you
2007-01-04 10:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only make up his own mind. But if hes like that now I wouldn't get your hopes up. How old is he???
2007-01-04 10:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt know what he wants because if he wants to marry u then whats the problem? he is just scared. he needs to figure out what he wants and stop playing GAMES!!!!!
2007-01-04 10:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by ms. williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it`s time to give up on him and move on with someone else or do things that are better than he is doing.
2015-04-27 12:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋