Okay, I have someone in my life who is very depressed, and I am like her only true friend, but she is very upset with me. She knows I love her to death, and that I am always here, and I know she doesn't want me to really stop texting her, she even checked her mail today to see if I wrote anything to her. I have texted her like 4 times, and she won't text back, she told me to leave her alone forever, I know she is upset, and I even apologized to her several of times, and I think she knows I really didn't mean to do anything to hurt her... SHE IS JUST SO STUBBORN! She also likes the attention, we use to be best friends... what do I do? I don't want to lose her, nor do I want to annoy her by texting/emailing her... I want her to text me back SO BAD! What do I do... she's stubborn, upset, use to be my best friend, and she's just hurt. Would you go to her house? She is so depressed too. I don't think she really wants to lose me, but she is very stubborn and I love her to death. HELP???
2007-01-04 10:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try talking to her and tell her how you feel...
But if that does not work, try giving her a little bit of time to herself. That way it gives her the chance to think and realize how much you mean to her. Since you say shes depressed I would keep an eye on her but try also try to give her some time and let her know that you're there for her!!! Good luck with everything!!!
2007-01-04 10:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should lay low for a while. No texting, No calling, No going to her house. Get busy with something else and leave her alone. You will be just adding to her troubles. she wants to be left alone so leave her. The next move is hers. Be strong. Get away from the computer. Go do something. Your getting obsessed.
2007-01-04 18:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go see her face to face if you can and see if you can't talk things over with her. Be honest to her and tell her how much you really care. Perhaps you can even you buy her something you know she would really like to help put her in a better mood. Also remember it takes two people to get into an arguement so if you stay calm then she will have no one to yell at. ;)
2007-01-04 18:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by vmf4jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple :)
Send her a txt msg telling her that whether she likes it or not your gonna be outside her house in like 15 minutes and she had better be ready,coz she can run but not hide.
grap some ice-cream and just hang out,talk and explain the situation to her,if she's really your friend,she wont stay mad at you.
Good luck! :)
2007-01-04 18:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut up.
If you want to help her, talk to her and stop paying attention to typing so much.
If you know she wants the attention, give it to her [Medicine is great]. In the end, that's all she wants, you just have to do it because she's begging you to.
2007-01-04 18:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by fake_pierce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life away from the nutbar
2007-01-04 18:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would send her one last email for her to respond to and tell her that u arnt trying to annnoy her, you want to help in any way that u can, and that u luv her to death. this should help her realize that she should communicate with you. hopefully this will help!
2007-01-04 18:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by <3evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried that she will hurt herself, definitely go see about her!
2007-01-04 18:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋