Ha, make jokes if you want If this seems too unnormal, especially for a male.
I feel no real need to be sexual period, I definately will be and have been romantic with my girlfriend and later-wife, But do you think a sincere girl will still be alright overall about us not having sex.
But Of course, still loving each other and being romantic physically in general? : ) Thanks
2007-01-04 10:03:21 · 22 answers · asked by carrington 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see why not...
If there are guys in the world that think like you, thrust me there are a lot more girls that think that way!!! Just gotta find the right one!!!
2007-01-04 10:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's asking a lot. I think maybe you need some medicine to help you be more sexual. Some people think they aren't but it can be the relationship they are in, their job, or some other thing that makes them feel this way. You would need to discuss with her and tell her how you really feel. If she's the same you might be a great match, if not you might need to find alternatives to keep eachother happy. Remember it's about both of you, not just what one person wants.
2007-01-04 18:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an incredably evil thing to do to someone. Loving each other and being "romantically physical" is not the same thing as making love. It's all about a connection with your spouse. If you deprive that person of sex that person will find it with someone else.
2007-01-04 18:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are women who don't care about sex, so if your girlfriend was in that category then you might be ok, but to be honest, why would anyone want ot miss out on all that? I for one could not live without and thank God I can't complain about not getting it either.
2007-01-04 18:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND OUT IF SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY YOU DO. iF YOU ENJOYS THE SEX AND IS NOT WILLING TO STOP BEING PHYSICAL THEN SHE PROBABLY NOT THE WOMAN TO MAKE YOUR WIFE. IT'S NOT COMPLETELY ABNORMAL TO NOT BE SEXUALLY INTERESTED BUT KEEP IN MIND THERE SHOULD NO SURPRISES IN ANY RELATIONSHIP AFTER MARRIAGE. COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING TO YOU FUTURE WIFE ABOUT YOUR WISHES AND PREFERENCES AND ALL THAT STUFF. DO PRE-MARITAL THERAPY TOO, AND NOT WITH A RELIGIOUS PERSON, SOMEONE OBJECTIVE.
2007-01-04 18:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's a woman who wants sex then sexually you aren't a match, and that can lead to serious problems down the road. I suggest you make sure you get a woman who shares your views and wants in a relationship.
2007-01-04 18:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Indeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women out there that don't care about sex and would be happy to meet a guy like you. Just make sure women you date know up front that sex isn't on the menu. Be honest about it.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 18:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probaly not at first... but usually after kids and after you have been married for a while... she probably wouldn't want much sex anyway. I wouldn't go that route at first though. You never know though... sincerity can alter things!
2007-01-04 18:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lin S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loved you then it wouldnt matter. Sex is just a great bounus of the love and marrage part but what is really important is the bond you guys share together.
2007-01-04 18:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever think about trying to meet someone thats in the same boat as you?? Probably your best bet. And there are people like you.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 18:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋