i have the most amazin boyfriend who loves me so much but i get really jealous about other girls tlkin t him even though i know he'll neva leav me. i really dont trust other females and so many have proved t me why i shouldnt, is this completely ridiculous that i think some girl might try take him off me :(
2007-01-04 10:02:06 · 31 answers · asked by rach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is perfectly normal, you should tell him that it makes you cliny, my gf has the same thing she always gets cliny when i am around other girls even though i will never leave her, all this shows is that you are a great gf and you love him very much and dont want to lose him, if he loves you he feels the same thing, my gf gets cliny over me just like i do over her cause we dont want to lose each other, dont change in any way and always feel cliny about him because all you are doing is loving him and im sure he would find it adorable, all that says is that you are a great gf. if you need it you can ask him for reasurance
2007-01-04 10:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bozza b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't ask a question but apparently need advice...
You can't "know he'll neva leav me" unless you can see the future. There are no guarantees...and apparently you don't trust him or you wouldn't be jealous. A girl can't take him off you if you "Know he'll neva leave me"...right?
Get over your insecurity. If someone does lure him away then that just means he wasn't a good match for you. Be careful that your jealousy doesn't drive him away first...
2007-01-04 10:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very insercure and have a very low self steem. You are very introvert or have been abused growing up.
He will eventually leave you if you dont change it. You need to realize that he is with you because he wants to. No one is forcing anyone and he is outgoing by nature and probably has a personality girls really like. There is nothing you can do to change that.
Try having him hang out with a female you completely trust, someone you are very close with and this will help you see there is nothing to worry about
2007-01-04 10:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he'll never leave you then try to relax and trust him. Let him talk to other girls, as long as he comes home to you and he is only talking!
Others may try to take him from you but again, TRUST him. You will only drive him away with jealous behaviour.
Trust in him and trust in the love that you have for each other and enjoy each other.
Best of Luck!
2007-01-04 10:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Maple Leaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's with you, you should take comfort in that. Why wouldn't you want other girls to want your boyfriend? They're probably jealous of you. Take that aspect instead. If a lot of girls really like your boyfriend then it sounds like you've got a keeper. You won't keep him for long if you start to not trust him. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship.
2007-01-04 10:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not ridiculous.. you feel this way because you love him sooo much! and you cant believe you have got him and that he loves you back, so you are just afraid of loosing him!
Just try and trust him, if your sure he will never leave you, then make sure you dont forget it....
Im sure he wouldnt go for another girl if he loves you, why would he want to ruin things with you for some other *****!
Talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel, if he is flirting with other girls infront of you then this is wrong!! if he isnt and they have a platonic relationship, then just trust him!
good luck x
2007-01-04 10:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not be ridiculous the bottom line is that there are girls out there, that dont care about you or your relationship, and WILL try to take him away from you. BUT you love him and he loves you and no matter they try he will still come back to you so you dont have to worry but you can be alil jealous its nautral and you are his girlfriend. Just dont make seem like you dont trust him because you might drive him away with to much jealous...
2007-01-04 10:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Young South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with a twin and his twin brothers g/f actually asked me if she could move in our bedroom with us telling me how much she loved my man, so I think its not as ridicules as you may think that we woman get jealous. Doesn't mean we don't trust the guys were with but it shows we have to worry about the other females in our lives trying to take our guys from us because they see what a great catch we have
2007-01-04 10:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Deedee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not that you don't trust other women and you trust your boyfriend, you don't trust yourself.
Jealousy is simply insecurity. The fear that you don't have enough "worth" to someone else for them to stay interested in you. So you "protect" the one you love from others so that they won't find someone better than you and leave you. You don't see yourself as better than anyone else to him.
He's not dumb. No other woman can steal him away if he is truly in love with you. Thinking one could is discounting his intelligence. It's saying he's stupid and he can be tricked by others.
You need to work on your own self-esteem. Until you believe you have undeniable worth to someone else, you won't. You will always live in fear of your boyfriend/husband leaving you for someone else because you don't feel "good enough" for him, or that others are better than you.
I know this is harsh to swallow, but it's how jealousy works.
2007-01-04 10:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all! Some girls are like that, when they see a guy they will go after him! Good job on noticing that! I wish you the best of the best and hope you make the right decision!
2007-01-04 10:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋