We´ve known each other for five months now, and we´ve been dating for less than a week. before we started dating he asked me to be his girlfriend several times, but since I wasn´t sure about him, I would always reject him. ´Til new years, when he asked again, not knowing what it could end up like, I said yes. And now, only three days into the relationship I feel like he´s not ready for it, like he´s acting as if he we´re still single. Am I being too picky about it, or is he not acting right? I need help....
2007-01-04 10:01:44 · 2 answers · asked by roseykid01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends how well you know him. Sounds like you need to take it slow and just get to know eachother. Just be yourself... he obviously likes you if he's asked you out a few times so far. He's attracted to the you he met before you started dating so just chill out. Be polite, respectful etc but do just be yourself.
2007-01-04 10:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Diana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being picky. You are being cautious. I don't blame you. What you should have done while was asking you over and over to be his girlfriend is to ask him - why? What does he have to contribute to the relationship and depending upon what you want out of the deal - I'm an old lady. Anybody I meet these days has to know that I'm about getting to know you - I'm gonna ask a million questions (and I am going to keep a record of everything he said -address, phone, moles, everything!) You have to take your time getting to know people. If you feel you responded too quickly, let him know right away. The worse thing is to let the 'relationship' drag on and you already know you are not a happy camper. You prabably should have observed him more. I wanna know how he treats his Mother, - all that. Women tend to be more mature than men anyway. SInce you don't say what 'not acting right' means - you'll have to make your own decision, but know this - the spirit inside you (yea, people always say "instinct") will lead you to make the right decision. You have already got the nudge from inside so you will have to decide if you want this to go on and wait to see if he is going to "grow up' or start responding the way you feel is right. Or - will you cancel this before it gets too deep. Good luck - and just remember - you are the most important part of the equation. If you are uncomfortable now - it ain't gonna get no betta' (excuse my bad language)
2007-01-04 10:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋