A girlfriend of mine is having an affair with a young buck,who,I must say could easily snag a hottie his own age..what gives? I'm less than supportive of her choice in the matter yet completely baffled by his! I just don't get it! Is sex and the city or Demi Moore to be blamed?!
2007-01-04 09:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by justsayin... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
affairs are sad.. if your friend is unhappy with her marraige, she should get divorced before she starts sleeping around with others.. it won't solve anything.
most, but not all 22 yr old guys are horny and want sex from anyone who is willing to do it. they could care a less whether it is with a 22 yr old or 35 yr old. he doesn't love her. all he loves is the sex.
the fact that she is 35 and obviously has tons of sex experience, well, that will probably be a good thing in terms of satisfying the sexual needs of this young man.
for me, i don't want casual sex, and i certainly won't get involved with a married woman.. as far as age, well, it's just a number.. but i generally become attracted to women with similar attitudes and values, and similar amounts of experience (in my case, very little, therefore i tend to go for younger women in their early 20s, but that's just a general comment..
i've recently become very interested in an older woman (not much older, but older, nonethless) so i guess this is proof that i can be attracted to anyone if they seem like a decent person and who generally has a set of values and attitudes that are compatable with mine.
but yah, i agree that what your friend is doing is wrong.. and no, i don't think demi moore is at fault.. she's just being herself. she doesn't force her values on others..
2007-01-04 09:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the affair part is bad. However the guys age isn't a big deal. Women who are around 30 are very attractive to younger guys.
2007-01-04 17:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this - your girlfriend is attractive and the young man knows that she is not only physically attractive but has the maturity and experience he wants. Nothing is to be blamed. If the young man is sensible and mature himself, he probably made a very good selection.
2007-01-04 17:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex is better for him in several ways.
1) He doesn't have to initiate it, she does.
2) She does things to him he's never experienced before.
3) She probably is control in the bedroom so he just sits back & relaxes and lets her got o town.
4) She'll let him do anything he wants sexually
4)It's a NSA relationship.
2007-01-04 17:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age doesnt matter really. depends on your personal level of maturity. some guys just like older women. i would rather date a 30 ish women than an 18 yr old who barely knows who she is yeet
2007-01-04 17:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by nuke81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey...affairs (between people of all ages) have been going on as long as there have been relationships.
She's flattered a kid finds her attractive, and he's flattered an "experienced woman" wants to play with him...no strings.
2007-01-04 17:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some 30ish women look like they are in their early twenties I'm not thirty yet but when I get in my 30's I plan to look like an even hotter babe than I do now. kudos
2007-01-04 17:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't an older woman date a younger man??? What rule book are you getting this from, dear?????????? And what is there to "get"?????
Obviously she's hot enough to be attracting the attention of this guy, who's probably drilling her like a Texas oil well...........
You statements SCREAM jealousy!!!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-04 17:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but why not? Age shouldnt be the deciding factor in making a relationship work.
2007-01-04 17:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's ask my 22 yr old husband who definitely has the hots for my 31 yr old, married self.
he says: "yeah."
2007-01-04 17:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by schneb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋