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tell me what you think (remember i am in high school)

*i blush (badly)every time someone says anything remotly embarrasing.
*i end up with alot of homework all the time because instead of doing my work i sit and worry a bout who likes me and who doesnt.
*i am CONSTANTLY trying to figure out ppl by their body language. and maybe if they are annoyed by me or if they like me.
*sorry for this detail but whenever i have a period or something i always ask my best friend to check for me to make sure that i did not bleed through or something. about 5 times a day.
*when i go home every day i have to go look in the mirror to make sure that nothing looks weird or something.

the thing is that i am actually kinda a popular person or not to sound snobby at all, but i always second guess my self. its wierd cuz i am not a shy girl in particular and i didnt consider myself insecure at all its just all this anxiety. it doesnt really add up

2007-01-04 09:18:15 · 1 answers · asked by summer girl 3 in Health Mental Health

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No, its just plain self conciousness on an extreme level. You are so worried about making a fool of yourself or being looked down upon by your peers. Just reassure yourself that everyone in high school is feeling the EXACT way you are. Everyone is trying to fit in, to look perfect,to be on top of their game. Truth is high school is barely the beginning of your game. you most likely won't "find yourself" til college and when you do it will be so wonderful. But concerning high school, have fun, go crazy,relax!! Just complete it and don't care about others. They just trying to handle their business. These four years you can never get back so make them the best four possible!! I know that was a lot but i hope it helps a bit!! :)

2007-01-04 09:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by mallerie2002 2 · 1 1

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