i was at a football game and couldn't hear that well but she kept calling thoughout. Now I haven't heard from her since then. Ladies...I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE IS THINKING/DOING. During that 6 week period I sent her a christmas gift and wished her happy new year in an email....that's all. no whinning. We went out for almost 2 years. I have lost weight and moved closer to her if that makes any difference. anyone with a thought on how to proceed w/ this? I'd love to get together with her for dinner or something but I think she owes some explanation about what is going on. (fyi...we are in our 30s, not teens as it may sound). thanks for you help
2007-01-04 09:05:02 · 6 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call the girl back.. ask about the dinner. Tell her that you really need to talk.. esp. about the way that she dumped you (pathetic). It sounds like she may miss you, which is why she called. if the dinner date doesn't work, i'd just move on man. There are other fish in the sea!
2007-01-04 09:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by jjeessiiccaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really know how you feel but I think you should call her and talk to her and express your feelings. I think at least you will know that you tried doing something about it rather than not doing anything. See, my ex-boyfriend dumped me on September and he called me on December right before Christmas. He told me what a great person I was and that he was always going to be there for me in case I needed anything he said he will always be my friend. He said so many good things about me that, even though, I was already moving on he left me thinking, what if he wants to get back with me and doesn't know how to say it. Well, I called him on Christmas day and asked him if he still had feelings for me but he said no. It hurt me so much just like the first day he dump me but at least I asked and now I know for sure I have no hopes with him.
2007-01-04 09:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the new years, I get calls from lots of people just wanting to say happy new year, or hi. Don't read into it too much. She dumped you, probably just wanted to make sure you're ok. Did she send you a christmas gift? Did she say anything else but hi?
2007-01-04 09:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I'm not trying to answer your question. Your answer to my question just really irritated me. I make very good grades and I am the 14 year old and he's 13. We are 363 days apart. Ok! Hell I make very good grades and I have been slacking off all year.
2007-01-04 17:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by rene2991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having no one for the holiday suck. Maybe she have enough time to think and thought that new year is a big think for the two of you. Do you remember if that day is special in anyway for her?
2007-01-04 09:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her talk to her.
2007-01-04 09:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋