what would u do?

Question

my boyfriend want to take me on a trip with his family and friends the thing is his sister tried to hook him up with some body else and all his people takin their kids and he had a child but im not his child mother it like i love him but im not part of that picture him and his child even though i do like the baby but that not my daughter should i go or tell him to take his baby mama and tell him how i truely feel

Answer 1

Gurl please. GO!!! He asked you. Damn his sister. You're not dating her. He wants to be with you. If he wanted to take the baby mama or someone else he wouldn't have asked you to go.

Don't throw away a potentially good relationship because of your own insecurities. Life is too short.

Answer 2

If u dont want to go o this trip, then u dont have to go! If u feel uncomfortable then tell him. But he asked u to go cause he wants to be with u. And it might feel weird being with his family but u still get to be with ur guy! But if u say no tell ur boyfriend why cause u know he will ask!When he asks why tell him the real reason. you shouldnt keep something from him cause eventually, he will find out. A good relationship is mostly based on honesty. If he finds out then he might get mad at u and he might not but u dont want to take that chance. So u should tell him how u feel and he will compramise with u and u guys will be happy again well u will be. LOL jk. but u guys will be happy!!! so tell him. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 3

The fact is, if you are going to be in his life, you are in the babies life as well! You will take on all of the same responsibilities as the babies mama and love him as much or more as she does! As others have said, DAMN THE SISTER! Her opinion should mean squat to you and your boyfriend. If he loves you and asked you to go, GO!!!!!! Hope this helps.