Hey i need some advice. I know this girl and we are good friends. We hang out every week and go see movies together. We know each other pretty well. We go out together all the time but it really isn't a "date" and sometimes we go in groups of friends. I think she likes me but I'm not sure. When we go out it's sometimes in a group so it's not really a date. She flirts with me but with others too just not as much. I think that she is really awesome and want to let her know that I like her. How is the best way to do this?
2007-01-04 09:03:36 · 5 answers · asked by CR717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What would be the best word choice when telling her?
2007-01-04 09:19:13 · update #1
just tell her. it will be nerve wracking, but worse if you never find out if she likes you or not. dont let the opprotunity pass you by or you will always wonder "what if". Just tell her how much fun you have with her, how awesome you think she is, and you would really like to take her on a date, maybe just the two of you to see if ya'll could be more than just friends. worst she can say is no.
2007-01-04 09:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by kt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're doing fine so far. Sometimes it's better to be out in a group. Relax and have fun, and don't seek her attention. What you want is attraction. You can rev it up by using certain techniques. Tease her, play around with her - like little kids do. Then, back off. See what happens. Repeat process.
Dude.. you don't need to 'let her know' that you like her. Girls are good at figuring out. It's best that she doesn't know for sure. Then she can't flake out on you. It's better not to ask her out on a 'date' - just hang out and have fun. When you're both relaxed, it's more fun. By calling it a 'date', you're going to be nervous and she's going to be nervous, and it is counter-productive. Just joke around and have fun. Things will work out.
Telling her will just blow the mystery and anticipation. Tension = excitement. Don't tell her - attract her.
2007-01-04 09:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like i thinkim starting to have different feelings for you and i was woneringif you would like to try going out sometimes just us you know as in on a date.
2007-01-04 09:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. One of my best guy friends jsut told me, and I was so stoked. he had waited for like 3.5 yrs to tell me... its a waste of time, just ball up and ask her out
2007-01-04 09:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her
2007-01-04 09:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋