Hey People,
I have a genuine question to ask about woman myself I am a single guy and quite fancy meeting a girl but don't know how to do so please don't laugh...
I always get nervous when a girl smiles at me or looks at me, everywhere, I never know to do nor do I have the confidence within myself to even talk to a girl how pathetic is that!?!
If someone could give me some advice on what to do, girls always look at me, and I always find somone looking at me and I dont know what to say or do I just try and avoid the subject...
Help please....
2007-01-04 08:58:58 · 19 answers · asked by Harry A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe if you cant talk to them in a regular atmosphere, maybe you should consider online dating. That way, by the time you meet the person, you already know them and they know you. You wont be nearly as nervous by half.
2007-01-04 09:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Z. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very shy person and you are not alone. There are many guys in the same boat but you can learn to get rid of your shyness around girls. The thing to do is to think of a girl maybe as a sister or cousin. Just be friends with one and ask her to tell you what she is interested in. Comment on the way she dresses and praise her if you think she dresses nice. Tell her she has a warm and friendly smile. When the girls look at you just smile and look back at them and when one approaches you just say, "Hi." I am sure she will start a conversation.
2007-01-04 17:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, Get a grip and dive in. If she is looking at you and she smiles and holds eye contact then you are over the first hurdle. Wander over and say "Hello, I'm 'Bob' whats your name?" Follow up by saying something like "Well you look really confident, what do you do for a living?" Take it from there - show an interest in her answers and ask her opinions about anything you like. Don't stay for more than 15 Min's, say you were really pleased to meet her and would like to bump into her again. You have 2 options - if things were going well, offer her your number and ask for hers. If things did not go too well, just walk off with your head held high.
2007-01-08 12:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by 31Alpha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if a girl is looking at you, that should be enough to help build up you confidence, because a girl won't just smile at anyone. You have to have confidence if you want a girl. We have a hard time dating a man with low self esteem, so try and work on it. Then next time try saying "Hi". It's a good Ice breaker, followed by My name is....... The rest will fall into place.
DO NOT GIVE HER SOME CHEESY LINE-WE HATE THAT!
2007-01-04 17:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When some girls look at you this probably means they find you nice looking and would like to get to know you but also don't have the confidence. Try to talk to some females, be their friend, they will see your true personality and enjoy to spend time with you. Relax, take a deep breath before you approach a girl. sometimes girls find it very attractive when the guy is shy and is affraid to talk to a girl.
2007-01-04 17:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by simple is great and easy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have confidence or at least pretend you do. I am a woman and I know that is the sexiest approach a man can take. I do not mean be arrogant. Be secure about who you are. When you go out remind yourself of all the good things about you that you are going to bring to a relationship even a casual one. When you approach a woman bring those qualities to your meeting. Remember also that women are usually feeling just as awkward as you are at a first meeting so relax go out and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-04 17:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooohhh how cute! Really!
Well, online is a good way because you don't have to make eye contact. That way you can get to know them slowly. Also, you have to be able to talk to some girls. Ask those girls for some advice.
2007-01-04 17:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and say hi. That's all you need to start a conversation. If she is smiling at you then its the sign that its ok to move in. All you have to do is say hi and the conversation will go from there.
2007-01-04 17:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi. that would be the first step. dont be nervous, if a girl is lookin at you, she thinks your cute. just keep that in your mind as you approach her. then tell her she looks nice and ask her if you could take her out for drinks, coffee whatever.
2007-01-04 17:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by kt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like the look of them why not risk smiling back and see what happens?
2007-01-08 15:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋