Ok, I previously asked if I should walk away from this guy and I received an overwhelming response of "yes". So I did, but I find myself still wanting to call him and talk to him even though it was obvious that he was not being honest with me and when I decided to break it off with him, he was still denying up and down that I was the only one and that he wasn't talking to anyone else. LIAR! Why can't I get over him when our relationship was so toxic and he could not be trusted?! Girls, why do we put ourselves through this??
2007-01-04 08:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by schaves55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because your/our emotions are tied up with the guys that we date. You know he's no good but we have in our mind thinks, what if he changes...? LOL. Thats not going to happen because he doesnt think nothing is wrong with him. All I can say to you honey, when you feel the urge to call think about all the nasty shyt he said and done to you and believe me you won't call.
Focus on yourself and believe that you deserve better then you'll get better. We as women need to stop making excuses for sorry @ss men. When they show you how they are, believe them.
2007-01-04 09:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The player type almost always is the most hardest to get over because they play the game with their charm so well.
I went through the same type of deal last year, and I firmly believe that I fell in love with him. The fact that you did walk away is good in itself, but now you need the strength to keep walking. Give yourself time to cry over him and rebound with other guys. You'll forget about him eventually, but it does take time, and I mean a lot of time.
With me, we started talking in February ('06), then kissed me in March, then began getting all flighty and avoidant and stopped speaking to me altogether; I later found out that he had gotten my friend's phone number, so I dropped the story on her, then he lied about ever screwing me over. I didn't truly get over him until sometime in November or December of 2006, and to this day, I still can't be sure if I am just yet.
Give it time, it's hard. Good luck.
2007-01-04 17:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Elicit Malice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women like the "bad boy" image. Maybe you're one of these ppl. i completely DO NOT agree with the first answer- using someone else just makes the cycle worse. Obviously this guy dosen't care about you and if he did he wouldn't lie to you. He cheated on you- why should you cheat on someone else? Haven't you learned your lesson by this guy? Honestly- have some self respect and move on because he's not going to become anything other than a cheater. And you deserve more than that.
2007-01-04 17:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by VandyViolin09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, feelings are feelings. If you feel you made the right decision by leaving him then ok, but no one ever said it would be easy. It's ok that you have strong feelings for him even though he might have been a jerk to you. You just have to admit that you still have feelings for him, accept that, and then move on. I know how you feel but the only way to start to get over him is to accept that you still like him and it's ok. Good luck
2007-01-04 16:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I cant get over my ex who broke up with me in November!!! I wanted to cry my eyes out, and I still do! I cant call him, because thats why we broke up in the 1st place, was cuz I got annoying by calling him 24/7, and he was my 1st love. Maybe you cant get over him cuz you two were so strong together, and you cant imagine him being with another girl... thats how I feel.
2007-01-04 17:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to rebound to get over a guy faster. Do you know someone that you can use just for this purpose?
2007-01-04 16:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by tx girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is hard. Especially if you put all your heart and soul into this one person. Over time it will be easier.
2007-01-04 16:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by lostlifehard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find something or someone else to do and believe me you won't even care what he does
2007-01-04 16:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is not worth it just try to move on believe me i had this same problem.
good luck!
2007-01-04 16:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from this loser.
2007-01-04 17:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋