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So, my ex girlfriend wants to get back together, and she promises she would never ever hurt me like last time. She sounds very sincere, but i am really not that into her anymore. I told her that i would let her know by friday, but i kinda hinted that i would get back with her. My best friend and I used to go out, and she says she still has feelings for me, but she is scared...and i dont think a relationship with her would work. But i really really like her :-( And now she is mad that i might go out with my ex..and i don't know what to do! I need some outside advice! Please help me! I hope it wasnt too confusing! ~Peace~
2007-01-04 08:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by Justbeingme 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, if you are debating on whether or not to be with someone, then you probably should not date her (either of them). If you were supposed to be with either of them, then you would probably would not be asking those questions. It seems like the real issue is that you are concerned with hurting their feelings by rejecting them. Don't worry, I'm sure it will sting but it's better to be honest right from the start.
2007-01-04 08:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, hang out more with you best friend. Your ex has a hidden agenda. Maybe she was dating a guy and it didnt work out. She knows that you're available so you're her Plan B. Just my opinion.
I don't know how long you and your ex been broken up but if she really hurt you, do you want to risk getting hurt again. Also, it doesn't sound like you have healed from whatever she did to you. If she cheated on you? Keep it moving and chill with your best friend. I think you and your best friend may have a future. Y'all need to do some serious talking. ;-D
2007-01-04 16:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just an idea, you sound like a good young dude and have some game when it comes to the ladies...bang them both...at the same time.
cause in the long run...when you find the right one...you'll know, and if you don't know with either of thses girls why bother?chances are you won't even remember these girls names is 10 years.
"...got 99 problems but a ***** aint one"
the truth!
2007-01-04 17:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the ex that your not into anymore, especially since she already hurt you.
Get back with the best friend. Give that relationship one more shot. If you guy went out before it must have not been that bad since your still friends with her.
Good Luck!
2007-01-04 16:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is gonna sound really dumb but..... just follow your heart. Sit down and really think about it. Think about who you would be the most happy with. Think about how you girlfriend has hurt you, and think about what would happen if you and your friend didnt work out. Trust your judgement.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-04 16:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by caitybeth3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋