How do you get over your first love who you truly loved but it turns out he didn't love you the same way. I loved him more than he loved me.Two years that i can't get back.
2007-01-04 08:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by naomijoan0615 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through the same exact thing about a few months ago. From personal experience I don't think you will ever forget your first love but with time you will learn that it was the best thing for you to not be with someone who didn't love you the same way and that you deserve better.
For me personally the guy I was madly in love with left me for unreal reasons (just my perception) and it hurt so bad.He said that he we had trust issues when I questioned his friendship with some girl, not to mention the fact that prior to that I caught him cheating on me with girls online. Its not physical cheating but he was virtually talking to all these women, flirting with them and paid $15 for the monthly fee.
On top of all that he treated me really bad after the break up. Whenever I would call and cry and ask him what went wrong why didn't he work through our trust issue (which was stupid and now that I am here I would never deal with relationships that I have doubts about!) he would say really mean things, yell at me in front of his friends disrespecting me, calling me stupid, telling me I need to move on and get over him and act like a grown up and deal with it.
To make things worst I became obsessive after we broke up checking his phone bill religiously, his myspace, aim and found out he was trying to date all these other females. I pretended to be one of them and he actually confessed to my fake person that he is fallin in love with this girl at his school. That was it for me. That pulled the trigger.
Of course I cried a lot, it hurt so bad to know that he didnt love me the same way and moved on in 2 weeks! So I attempted to go on with my life, kept myself busy with friends and things i love doing. Then I went on a date with someguy I didn't expect anything out of and me and him clicked. It was absolutely wonderful. I was soo happy once again. Got all the feelings and butterflies once again. Of course this guy didn't work out but now I know that I can love again and will never ever go back to my first love and have a sadistic massacist relationship. I know now that I deserve so much better and know what to look for in a man.
This became a novel. Sorry for making you read so much but I hope it helps you feel better and make you feel positive about love and relationships once more.
Rememeber give it time and keep busy. Focus on yourself and do what makes you happy intrinsically!!
2007-01-04 08:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Pudge_Monsta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u can't really get over them...becuz if there is already a place for them in yur heart then u can't really let them go...so all i can tell u in a way to get over someone just keep loving him...if he doesn't know that u love him in a different way then tell him that u love more then he loves u...then from there find out how everything is goin to fan out...well i hope my advice helps u...well good luck and never give up on love....
2007-01-04 08:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by PinaymOnkee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you keep on going on with your life.
2007-01-04 08:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
date other dudes
2007-01-04 08:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ANOTHER PERSON
2007-01-04 08:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋