met a guy back in march. had an amazing summer together. fell in love with each other. in october, ran in to him and his GIRLFRIEND he never told me about. he says because of a "situation" he has to be with her, even though he doesn't want to be. he says he needs me to be understanding and patient. we still see eachother, but what am i doing. he lied to me, never told me about her, made me feel all summer long like i was the best thing that ever happened to him, as he was to me... what do i do?
2007-01-04 08:26:39 · 18 answers · asked by Liz G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok ....as guy I can tell you straight, he is playing you.
Did you ask yourself why did he lie to me?
I think you need to move on with your life.
Then again if you love him so much and you feel there is a future for both of you then go ahead, sometimes guys dont see what is ahead of them.
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2007-01-04 08:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by KoolG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what is in your own best interest. You have enough information already to know that this guy will not be honest and will not put you first. I know it's difficult to walk away from someone that you care about, but you need to hang on to your own dignity and do just that. He'll be especially perplexed if you just walk away w/o any announcements, without any warning or discussion, w/o any displays of hositility, etc. Find somebody else in a different 'situation'--you deserve all good things. Good Luck
2007-01-04 08:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some self-respect and drop this guy! For one you are contributing to him being dishonest and unfaithful to his current girlfriend and what goes around is sure to come back around! He lied to you then, lies to his current girlfriend now and seems to be a liar and a cheater!
Let it go, keep the fond memories and move on. He would never respect you in the future anyhow, knowing you tolerate that kind of behavior.
2007-01-04 08:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing with him,, but for yourself, you find a new life, new friends and hopefully one day someone that loves you.. This guy is not honest or sincere.. he has a gf he never told you even thought you were together all summer..Girl, before you get more hurt, get out. Sad, that so many users and liars exist out there
2007-01-04 08:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get to choose who you fall in love with. And love can last after you find out the person is not worthy of your love.
These are times when you brain has to take over and rescue you from your foolish heart.
The guy is a player and you've been played.
2007-01-04 08:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumer loven hapend to fast... sound like the movie greese... wall sumerloven sounds like it is over and he is just ceeping you for a spare weel. do you feel like someone that is worth only second best.
come on everyone desefs best and wile you are wasting your time holding on to ... nothing the guy of your dreams might just past buy and some other girl will grab him because you were to bussy opsessing get over it and get happy... you weep now but years from now when you sit with your hubby and kiddys playing in the sand you will see how funny this matter is...
2007-01-04 08:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by manuel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you don't know and who doesn't belong to you? If you really new him you would of known he had a girlfriend and he has a situation that you don't know anything about which makes him a liar and a cheat. You say you love him because you haven't let go.
2007-01-04 08:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoaaa - no, no, no, it's a sad thing what some women have to go through. Unless he proves to you he's in it completely and totaly for U > then u should deffinitely move on. tell yourself, it was a wonderful time, keep the happy memories - but make new ones w. a truer & more honest relationship.
2007-01-04 08:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
though it may be difficult the best thing for you to do is probably just to let him go. dont ever let yourself get stuck on just one person if its not ment to be, and definitely if hes not going to be true to you. trust me it will help you out in the long run because if you stay stuck on just one guy whos not going to treat you right then you may miss out on someone ten times better than he could ever think of being. trust me i know from experience, if i hadnt had let go of a tough relationship where he wasnt true id be stuck with the same loser and missing out on the true love of my life. lets just say i got lucky. but it happens...
2007-01-04 08:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by alex jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to lose him! he doesnt seem worth it. for saying he loves u, it doesnt even seem as if he respects or appreciates u or ur feelings. sorry to say but it seems like ur just the girl on the side. no matter what the reason, he shouldnt be cheating on his gf. and think about it this way, if u were his gf then hes most likely going to cheat on u. and u dont want that!
2007-01-04 08:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by hey there :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋