Ok, so the situation is this, I went out with two brothers, who I didn't know very well, and the other I had just met. The one I had met is closer to my age 28, is cuter, etc. but I had previously been told he had a girlfriend so that is a strict walk-away policy for me. While out the other brother ended up kissing me and in our extremely inebriated state, decided to hook-up that night. The next day was hanging out with both and found out that the original brother was single and interested (I don't think he knows that I slept with his brother, but I couldn't not tell him). Have absolutely no interest in anything further with the one I hooked up with and have a serious crush on the older one.
Unfortunately, I think I've completely burned that bridge?
2007-01-04 08:25:34 · 4 answers · asked by Temp T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO YOU DIDN"T!!! I was in the same situation about a year and a half ago and I am now still with the brother I didn't hook up with and have been for over a year. But you can't hide the fact that you hooked up with his brother and you have to let him make his own choice.
2007-01-04 08:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the brothers relationship. If you think there's something between you and the older brother, you should explore it and find out. But lay off the sauce this time, at least until you know better. Otherwise, you may find that all you've got out of this is a couple of notches on their headboards.
2007-01-04 08:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh mannnn, I bet you're totally bummed!!!
The only thing I can think of to do is to be completely up front with the brother that you want.
Tell him that you mistakenly hooked up with his brother but that he's the one you're really interested in...and ask if he'd like to give it a whirl.
2007-01-04 08:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if the older brother is cool with dating a chick that got drunk and had a one-nighter with his baby brother, then you've got nothing to worry about - for now.
but you're fooling yourself if you think this won't cause some kind of friction at some point in the future.
2007-01-04 08:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋