I love this girl a lot and she rejected me...now I want to give her some time to realize that I'm a hot guy.?..(I really am, not being egoish or anything)
I alwyas touch her and compliment her soo much, should I stop?
I have a feeling I come across as desperate...what do I do?
DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON
2007-01-04 08:21:14 · 17 answers · asked by rofgta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't taouch her, get a life, look busy, looks like you're chill! You're a man afterall!
2007-01-05 09:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by rockability 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is the "make her jealous" way. Flirt with some girls in front of her that will respond to you and let her see that you are quite the catch. Ask her out as a friend and let her get to know you as a person. Dont want to tell you to move on but after several attempts, you may just have to do that. To her you may not be boyfriend material but more a friend. Some girls dont want to wreck a friendship by getting involved with a friend because if things dont work out you lose a bf and a friend. Think about that.
2007-01-04 08:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, man you are being too strong, what you should do is back off for a while, explore new avenues. Start dating other women.
Two things can happen
1. She gets jealous and moves on
2. In her eyes you are appear more appealing and she is more attracted to you, strange but true, up to this day men are still trying to understand women.
But het dont be a wussy, let her know who is boss
2007-01-04 08:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by KoolG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat as you would treat a friend that you are not interested in. It sounds like you are going out of your way to make compliments to her and she is not responding. Maybe she is judging you or "profiling" you...a lot of really good looking guys are notorious for being @ssholes...maybe she thinks that you are too egocentric for her. Maybe you can just try to be more of yourself around her and this way she will see that you have values and standards. I am sure that it is unfair to think this way about really good looking guys...but it happens so often. I wish you luck...you should however open your eyes a little so that you don't miss a good girl that might be quietly waiting for you to notice her.
2007-01-04 08:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't BE desperate.
Keep on complimenting her but watch her reaction.
If she rolls her eyes after the 5th time you've complimented her, you're overdoing it.
Also be considerate when touching her. If she doesn't return your touch, slow down.
Go out with other people to have fun. Don't hang up all your happiness on her. Show her that you aren't desperate by doing fun things for yourself and with other friends.
You could also ASK her if you're overdoing it.
2007-01-04 08:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by flywho 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off and give her some space. Ignore her a little. Let her think that there is someone else in your life. But do not be an *** hole play it safe and choose your words carefully if she approaches you. Good Luck and enjoy the fishing.
2007-01-04 08:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad strategy. You probably blew it. You will seem desperate and worthless to her until you find someone else and she sees you having a great time with the new girl.
2007-01-04 08:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well play it off cool.. like dont compliment her much..especially dont touch her. go out with some other girl and then come back to her later.
2007-01-04 08:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by rentalsocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...just kidding.
Don't try so hard, you do sound desperate. Date other girls oh hot one and if she is interested she will get jealous and come back.
If not, move on...not kidding this time.
Good luck.
2007-01-04 08:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am going through the same thing,,,mine is worse she likes but still rejected me MAN!!some **** huh! well i dont know i am trying to move on if they say no is no
sad but true
2007-01-04 08:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋