was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, and now she is saying that she like another guy, and she said that i must like the girl i was txtin, and she said what comes around goes around....... she said she just wants to be freinds, i dunno what to do i just want her back.. whats the best thing to do?
Does this mean anything about my ex gf?
i caught my ex kiss another guy it hurts bad i love her still!! she said shes really sorry, she said it wud hurt if she saw me too! she said we arnt together any more, she said that gut ment nothing and that im a beter kisser i dont knw why she said that!she was flirting with me all that night but then she got really drunk! i thought we would end up back together cause she was ringing me the whole time and askin me to go out with her, she said she wants to be freinds..
2007-01-04 07:49:42 · 16 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're both pretty immature to be playing such stupid games with each other this much.
Forget her and move on. You just don't play games when the right one comes along and she's definately not it.
2007-01-04 07:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's messing with your mind a little. Flirting with you but then saying she likes another guy? That doesn't really seem fair...
I think she knows she's getting to you, so if I were you I would try as hard as i could to keep my mind off her. Go out on a few dates with other girls and see what happens. Be friendly towards your ex, but don't let her treat you like you're still going out. She may just be trying to make you jealous, (girls do that a lot) or she may actually want you back. If she knows you want her more than anything, she'll mess with your mind.
2007-01-04 15:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by eruptingfender9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your girlfriend is still confused about what she wants. She has some growing up to do. Let her be. Do not waste your time on her. You seem to be a caring and sensitive guy. Move on and find somebody who is mature and will reciprocate your feelings. It seems to me that she is playing games with you. Trying to pay you back just because you were texting another girl! You were just texting somebody else while she was caught kissing another guy soon after she made out with you. She is very unstable and you would do yourself a big favor by finding somebody else who has better sense.
2007-01-04 16:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are obviously not right for each other. You have nothing but problems, and you haven't given one good reason why you two should stay together. She obviously does not take your relationship seriously, and she is jealous. Dump her. Don't talk to her, or you'll never get over her. Move on with your life. There are other fish in the sea, and all that jazz. Good luck!
2007-01-04 15:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her jealous, go out with another girl 4 a while. or do the natural thing throw rocks at her window and call her name. I f she goes to the window say you love her and u want her back. Let her see you kissing another girl, tell the other girlm (in front of ex) that you love her. Good luck with it man, i really wish you good luck. And try to figure out if you did anythin gwrong.
2007-01-04 15:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by crazyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off a little bit and act like you dont want her and see if she comes back...start talking to other girls aswell and you might find someone else you like and get over her
If she said what comes around goes around then she should be talking about herself if shes the one that broke up with you.
2007-01-04 15:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to hurt, but I think she was looking for an excuse to put some distance between you, and now she's playing with your emotions. She sees herself now in the power position because she thinks she busted you for texting someone...but, she's the one who is playing you. You need to ask yourself why you are wasting your energy on someone who wants a lot of freedom but the ability to string you along at the same time. Your love and loyalty deserve to go to someone who cares for you as much. Healthy relationships don't have this much drama in them.
2007-01-04 15:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby boy let me tell u she just played u when u met her 4 a drink and u shouldn't let her do that, but u know betta thangs come in life besides a chic like dat therez alwayz some 1 betta. Trust me I been thur and done that.Move in baby boy.
2007-01-04 16:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by LaTricia J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man... stop complaining.. get your head straight.. and move on.
I bet there's another hot girl hotter than your ex... don't just sit there... talk to this other girl.
Love is just a phony word. Society likes to describe it as NOTEBOOK... CINDERELLA.. and all that crap.
They don't exist.
So get your head straight on.. and forget your ex for ONE minute.
2007-01-04 15:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard. I understand where your comming from. Tell her once and for all that you want her back and that you want to get serious agian. Ask her if she is willing to try. No more games. Ask her if you get back with her what she expects from you and then in return tell her what you expect from her in a relationship. If she doesn't want to get back with you then It's her lost tell her to stop calling you. Good luck.
2007-01-04 15:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋