me and my boyfriend broke up b-cuz i cheated on him and i really am sorry,i told him that more than enough time but it must not be enough when he didn't except me back yet.yeah i was wrong and i have to deal with what i did for the rest of my life but it truely was a mistake "every makes mistakes"i realized i love him,i want to be with no one else but him.his heart belongs to me thats how i feel b-cuz even though he aint give me another chance,we still makes the same eye contact,and he do certain things that let me knows he still do like me,besides that he talk to other girl that hurt me but can i blame him,sad to say no i can't ,the best thing i possibly can do is move on, only theres something pullin me back.
2007-01-04 07:19:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you love him and guilt is what's making you stay and I understand that everyone makes mistakes but what us women fail to realize is that men deal with hurt different than woman. Once a man really loves and trust a woman and there trust is betrayed it's hard for them to deal. They have there guards up for so long in the beginning that when they finally do let you in it's because they fell like your different from the rest and when you do anything to break that trust it's devastating. To be honest with you he make get over it and he may not. If he does decide to give you another chance realize it is gonna take a while for him to let you in. And even longer for him to be able to trust you. He also may give you another chance but still cant handle it and let you go. Him talking to other girls is only because his feelings are hurt and he wants to make you feel that same hurt. After you have expressed your sorrow and asked for another chance all you can do is wait. But don't wait to long or let him make you miserable for too long cause it may be just to make himself feel better. Give it time but don't wait forever. Good luck.
2007-01-04 07:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on already. It sounds like he has not forgiven you and is not willing to give you another opportunity to screw him over. So find someone else who doesn't know you for what you are yet.
2007-01-04 07:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he decides to forgive you he will come back. If not, move on. You have apologised, if he doesn't accept it then there is nothing else you can do.
2007-01-04 07:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already made your decision when you ho'd around. You don't have to move on, you can pine and suffer all you want, but if he's got a marble shaking around in his head he is done with you.
2007-01-04 07:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knew what you were doing when you were cheating... you don't hurt those you truly love, I think he should move on and you need to just deal with it.
2007-01-04 07:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋